Wow..this is just an amazing message. There's so much great advice in here
and many things I agree with.
Regarding so called pet names, I don't so much mind that as long as it goes
over the top. Sure, if someone constantly calls me so called sweet names it
gets stupid, but I personally don't mind it every now and again.
Regarding women being bossy/telling us what we men should or shouldn't do, I
have been a victim of this in past, but what my even bigger problem was that
I didn't mind or care. I used to do anything for a girl and it got me in to
so much trouble, so much so that women were simply using me. Using me for
money or anything else they wanted me to do because they knew that no
matter what I'd do it. Yes, Ido have quite a bit of money, but in stead of
using it for my advantage I created a problem with it by simply letting
women control me. It was so bad that in several of my relationship women
didn't even love me, but they knew that they could get things out of me,
many of them material things and they did it because they knew they could.
Of course that taught me valuable lessons and I make sure or at least I try
to not make the same mistakes again. It taught me to spot those who just
want to fuck me up and use me from the genuine ones. Of course you can never
be 100 % sure, you can never know for definite, but if you pay attention to
certain things you can have a much better idea. Of course I also learned
that just because a girl wants or asks for something doesn't mean she should
always get it, besides if she just constantly asks for things and doesn't
give anything in return it's obvious that there's something wrong with that
relationship.
Of course not all my relationships were bad, I had some great ones,
especially after I recovered from my failures and learned many things.
When it comes to listening/reasuring women I think I am quite good at it,
not that I'm showing off or anything. I have many female friends and I'm
told by many of those that it is because of my abilitty to listen, to
somehow make them secure and feel good about themselves. I'm not trying ot
be arrogant or anything, but this si what I've been told, not what I think
of myself.
There's prob a lot more that I could say about all this, but I need to get
ready for my weekend trip away. Again, what a great inspiring message.
Thanks for this.
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