p.s. in tango, you have to earn the right to be on the floor and to dance with good dancers. It's just the way it is.
Jack Dylan wrote: >Wow, some of you guys are tough. It seems that Sean will not only not >dance with women who are not good dancers but with women who agree >to dance with men who are not good dancers. It makes me feel a little sorry >for the nice ladies who agree to dance with me :-). Does it mean they will >miss out on dancing with the very best dancers? > >It also raises the question of how you choose your dance partners. Is the >ONLY criteria, as Sean implies, that they are 'good dancers'. That certainly >isn't the case with me or, I think, with most of the people I know. My only >criteria is that I like the lady or, if I don't know her, then I think I will >like her. >If I don't think she's a nice person or I dislike her for any other reason, I >will >never dance with her and I don't care how well she dances. But, if I like her, >I'll always dance with her. And, if she's not very good, then I hope I can >help >her to improve. If I see a lady struggling to dance with a man who isn't very >good it probably means she's a nice lady and, in my case, would make it >more likely that I would dance with her. > >I am just so grateful to all the women who agreed to dance with me when >I was absolutely awful. And I would feel very sorry if, because of that, they >missed out on dancing with men who are good dancers but think the same >way as Sean. > >Jack > > > > >----- Original Message ---- > > >>From: Trini y Sean (PATangoS) [EMAIL PROTECTED] >> >> > > > >> So if I see a woman dancing with that sort of a man, I am >>not likely to invite her to dance. The odds of her being a "good" dancer are >>just too low. >> >> >>Sean >> >> >> > > > > > > >_______________________________________________ >Tango-L mailing list >[email protected] >http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l > > > _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l
