Thanks for the good news--James is home--and may he get better and better,
and you too.

All the best to you both, you have been through so much!

, Carol

On Sun, Jul 12, 2020 at 12:33 AM Mimi Jasek <mjca...@gmail.com> wrote:

> So sorry for the long silence! If any of this is old news, I apologize for
> the repeat! Honestly too tired to check.
>
>   I finally sprang Jim from rehab @ 4:30 Saturday afternoon 6/27. At least
> he tested negative to his 3rd COVID test with results coming in Thursday
> 6/25. Because all others on his wing that he had any contact with - as well
> as staff - tested negative also, he got to leave.  But at least two
> residents at facility tested positive, and went to COVID unit. Someone who
> worked there had tested positive -  hence another test!!  At least two
> people at my work tested positive, and a number of staff who were in direct
> contact without PPE under state Health Department guidelines had to be
> tested - and quarantined till tesults back! We were closed one day for deep
> cleaning. Luckily I have worn a mask out and about since late March or
> early April, and at work once we did a soft reopening later in April. I was
> never in direct contact with positives, so was not even eligible for
> testing. We were so low staffed for almost a week and a half to two weeks,
> the extra fast paced work just about did me in! Then Jim came home - after
> I had worked that morning till close to 1:30, then ran last minute errands.
>
> I stayed home till going back to work on July 7th. It took days for Jim to
> begin to settle down, and for me to realize the full impact of what did or
> DID NOT happen in rehab.  Jim was seriously like a kid who had been to a
> summer camp for over a month with no rules, manners, or supervision!! I was
> in retrain to human being mode for days ☹️ The isolation on residents is
> horrible, and staff does what is necessary and not much else. All due to
> fear of virus. Our PCP told us it is the same at all facilities around
> here, and that he has long term patients that have done well for years who
> - due to isolation - are hallucinating and having all kinds of health
> problems 😢
>
> Day after Jim got home, 6/28, HHC nurse visited, then the next day OT and
> PT supervisors came. Then ST came Thursday 7/2, PT and OT came again by end
> of that week, and twice a week schedules set by all. Nurse cones once a
> week. Finally saw PCP Monday 7/6, got medicines fixed, and sitters worked
> out. New normal with therapists in morn, plus doctor visits as come up, and
> sitters in afternoon while I work started on Tue 7/7.
>
> As to how Jim is doing, he has good days and bad. He can dress himself,
> and take care of personal hygiene fairly well, but at times sequency
> prompting is still necessary. He is tired a lot, and can get upset or
> scared by little things easily. I can sometimes tell he is “off” just by
> his expression - a bit lost. I do not know if he will ever come all the way
> back, but most people who speak to him find he is really good! When he gets
> tired, or is awakened suddenly, he has issues. His PCP thinks, although a
> clot started the event, that it could have been a brain clot rather than
> from his heart due to the brain aneurysm he had back in Dec 2018? The coil
> technique shuts down that blood supply, and there can be issues with
> resupply from other areas of the brain? I am simply not sure, but do know
> doc said no way to tell till he has another one?? Lord help us.
>
> I did leave Jim with sitters on July 4th to go be with my granddaughter in
> Round Rock for her 13th birthday, and we both had a good day. While under
> HHC and therapists he is not supposed to go anywhere except doctor visits
> etc. I can usually leave him for around 2 hours by himself to go to work
> some mornings to get in all my time, yet he got upset once because he fell
> asleep and woke up alone before I got home 😢 So will leave him note when I
> leave so he knows. I simply can’t afford a sitter all the time! Really
> never, but for now he needs one in the afternoon.
>
> So, overall doing good, but hour by hour, day by day. My fatigue some days
> is such that I quietly cry, and stress and fatigue has made my joint
> condition raise its ugly head, plus dyshidrotic eczema on hands and wrists
> from wearing gloves at work and using hand sanitizer causes another misery.
> Got heavy duty medicine for that, but hard to find time to use due to
> restrictions on covering it up!
>
> We will survive, and prevail one way or another. Just keep prayers and
> positive vibes coming. After July I may not have any sitters, so do not
> know how things will go. Life - and work - will go on though.
>
> Mimi
>
> Sent from my iPhone
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