Right.  But little else, other than to say, "I don't think I could write a good
letter for you."  No explanation,  because then you will be put in a position
where you have to defend your explanation.

Paul Smith wrote:

> Thanks, Mike and Rick.
>
>         Re. the "don't say anything" advice: I don't think that's an option
> for me, is it? I mean, I have no intention of writing the letter of
> recommendation, for that reason. But I think I'd be in trouble if I just
> ignored the student's request, wouldn't I? I believe that I'm obliged to
> inform her that I won't write a letter, right?
>
> Paul Smith
> Alverno College
> Milwaukee
>
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Mike Scoles [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> > Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2001 7:41 PM
> > To: Teaching in the Psychological Sciences
> > Subject: Re: Difficult letter
> >
> >
> > Paul,
> >
> > Check out the letters of recommendation section here:
> >
> > http://www.lemoyne.edu/OTRP/teachingresources.html#lor
> >
> > My mother would know how to respond to this situation, "Now
> > Mike, if you can't
> > say anything nice, just don't say anything."
> >
> > -Mike
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