Janice...great question! I am not sure of the answer....sex has gone downhill...but our relationship has actually mellowed...I will be married 39 years in October...since TM hit me nearly 12 years ago I have watched my daughter get married and give me and my wife to fantastic grandchildren.....this has improved the happiness in both our lives...retirement is only a few years away so the stress of work will soon be gone...thinking about the question I believe my relationship as a whole since TM has been about the same. I am still very independent..I work, drive & walk unassisted....that being said if my condition was worse and I had to rely on my wife as a caregiver ...only God knows what the answer would be...personnally I think she would be there for me. Rob in New Jersey
________________________________ From: Janice [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Thursday, June 11, 2009 11:39 PM To: transverse myelitis Subject: [TMIC] It's Janice again. I have something else that I have wondered about and have decided to just ask and see what is out there. Do you feel that having TM has improved or destroyed the love/happiness in your marriage/relationship with your partner?
