Some Interesting points have been brought up in this discussion, so I'm
gonna chime in. Understand, I'm only speaking for myself, but there may be
some points to ponder here. Ok, when I first got married again, and she came
to Ohio, things went well the first night we were together, but, after I
got to see her demeanor and attitude, things went quickly down the tubes. It
didn't take long for her to tell me she hated me, and wished I was dead. I
suppose part of that was because I forced her to go to work. In any case,
with me, not all men, physical attraction was the main purpose to get
involved. One needs to take time to find out what kind of person lives inside
the one you want to tie up with, and, is that the same person that's projected
to the world, or are they different? Are they one person at home, and
another to the outside world. If so, then that's a phoney. Since this
wonderful
probelm of TM has so graciously decided to rule my life, I've begun to see
that looks don't mean a helluva lot. Oh, not the physicality doesn't
matter, but it shouldn't be uppermost. In your youth, maybe, but as you age,
you
take on a different outlook. I know for myself, attitude plays a big role.
If your a weasel of a person, nothings gonna happen, no matter how hard I
try, or what pill I take. If, and if, I feel the desire, and your
receptive, possibly. Also, age plays a role in this. I find the oder I get,
the less
desire I have. As far as feelings go, meaning sensation, if my partner has
diminished sensation, I'll do what it takes to try and get some back. It's
like, if you don't use it, you lose it syndrome. Maybe that'll work, maybe
it wont, but, if you have feelings for you partner, you'll at least try.
Men have a way of thinking, well, I can't feel anything or if you can't feel
anything, what's the use. Oh yeah, what about at least giving it a shot.
Your mind may come into play here in that, you remember what it was like,
maybe it'll be that way again. But, if you don't try. you'll never know. One
thing I've found out through my trek in life is, men need to know they're
needed, and women need to know they're loved. If those two needs are met,
the rest should fall into place. If you love each other, then damnit, show
it. It's never too late to experiment. Take those old tapes that are playing
in your mind, instilled by parents who say, certain sexual techniques if
you will, are taboo, and throw em in the shit can. There's nothing taboo about
loving someone, and showing them that you do. I gotta do more thinking on
this matter, but these are the thoughts that have been running through my
mind since this subject came up.
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