One more one more thing: You said:
"it is all my fault for creating accounts for themĀ years ago." I don't remember if I said the same thing on the older thread you just read but I know I have said it many, many times. My mates have told me to "stop beating myself up over it" just as many times and they're going to say the same thing to you. Maybe a better way of rephrasing this idiom is "It's not your fault." If you were a very young English speaking child, I would try to make you laugh with a bit of culture jamming, but I wouldn't want my mates on this forum to misunderstand me, because some of them may have to work jobs they hate so they can follow Supertramp83's excellent advice upthread. But if you are a teenager, you do not have the same resources as 30+ year old adult who is being paid to use advanced psychological manipulation techniques developed by criminal organizations to brainwash activists. You just don't. I wish I had the power to save my family too. It's a marathon, not a sprint. I need you to be strong so you can save your own children and maybe my grandchildren because I won't always be around. Thank you for going to the herculean effort it must have taken to try to help your family. I admire you, sir.