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Hi Paul I am finding that even though I am at level 3 and still have some compulsive games going on I can encounter an other who wants to come at me with an opposition postulate to mine. But if I recognize this as a game I don't want to play I can change my postulate to a complementary postulate. When I do this the other fails to hold their opposition postulate and wanders away. Because of my understanding of games I can dissolve games conditions or changes the others interest in playing a game.
Fun stuff. Pete Sent from my iPad > On Feb 8, 2014, at 9:44 PM, Paul Tipon <[email protected]> wrote: > > ************* > The following message is relayed to you by [email protected] > ************ > Hi Cory, > > Yes, your conclusion is correct but there are still three parts. If you are > not into having a winner or a looser in an encounter with another or others, > then there is no game by you. The other or others may not see it that way > and are looking for a winner or a looser so it is a game for them. From an > exterior view of an encounter, the encounter may be a game or not a game to > all of those doing encountering. No conclusions can be taken until more > actions have been taken and those actions are available to view. > > The one who has 'Freedom from Overwhelm' and 'Freedom from Games' can be > thought of as a stranger in a strange land and be very alone. This is why > Dennis says that you will be alone as you progress through TROM and the only > way to avoid this is to also take someone with you. I forget if he makes > that statement after Level 3 or 4. > > One may have his Ethics in and may not have a game within an encounter but > the encounter is still the playing of a game and one or more of the > encounterors may wind up exiting the encounter as neutral for they did not > play the game to a win or a loose. They just participated and their > underlying intention was for everyone to do well and not necessarily loose > but not have to win. For those sticklers that have to have polarities, no > matter what, it can be said that the encounter was a win-win situation. And > again it can be said for a particular encounter as this, win-win, there is > and was no game. > > Keep on TROMmoing, Paul > >> On Feb 8, 2014, at 6:18 PM, Cory Keeler wrote: >> >> I love talking about polarity. However what I see is that applying ethics is >> a matter of doing right or doing wrong. And any game is polarized, thus to >> have ethics in is to be good, and that makes it a game. >> >> Sent from my iPhone >> >>> On Feb 8, 2014, at 11:41 AM, Paul Tipon <[email protected]> wrote: >>> >>> ************* >>> The following message is relayed to you by [email protected] >>> ************ >>> Hi Cory, >>> >>> Freedom from games is to not have the intention that there will be a win or >>> a loss or both, a winner and a looser. Some will always come to a >>> conclusion of a win or a loss or both but you don't have to. Some cannot >>> see beyond having winners and loosers. One should be content that things >>> can happen and happen for the better. In this way, Ethics can be applied >>> without one having to enter into games. The physical universe is a force >>> universe but it is not a necessity that it also be a two pole and have >>> polarizing effects. There can be best and almost as good as best. We >>> don't have to have the best and the worst. >>> >>> It's all subjective even when it is objective and purely physical. What >>> can you see? >>> >>> Keep on TROMmoing, Paul >>> >>>> On Feb 8, 2014, at 2:26 AM, Cory Keeler wrote: >>>> >>>> Just curious you wrote: >>>> >>>>> It is up to each individual to be free of games and have their Ethics in >>>>> to avoid catching themselves up with out-Ethics and having motivators. >>>> >>>> Is not having ethics in and being free of games impossible? Ethics >>>> involves games right? >>>> >>>> Sent from my iPhone >>> _______________________________________________ >>> Trom mailing list >>> [email protected] >>> http://lists.newciv.org/mailman/listinfo/trom >> _______________________________________________ >> Trom mailing list >> [email protected] >> http://lists.newciv.org/mailman/listinfo/trom > > _______________________________________________ > Trom mailing list > [email protected] > http://lists.newciv.org/mailman/listinfo/trom
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