Wm. Taylor wrote:
Greetings, Terry. I apologize for the delay in getting back to you. My AC adapter died on my Laptop and so I did not have a computer for a few days.
 
Yes, I have come across this verse on occasion. Psalm 5.4-6 is a another passage with equally strong language. I must tell you that these passages are unsettling to me: I do not like to think that our God hates anyone. Nevertheless I must be willing to take them under consideration and seek God's heart in trying to understand them.
 
I think first I would like to tell you what I do not think this is saying about God. God does not will to hate certain people, while at the same time will to love others, and this in an indiscriminate way that can only be described from our perspective in terms that appear arbitrary at best, as if he created ABCs to love and XYZs to hate. If you happen to be from the first group, great, God loves you and will call you to himself; if you are from the latter group, too bad, God hates you and you're toast, and this because he has created you for a different end. This sort of theology forces a dichotomy within the Godhead, dueling wills, if you will -- a split personality. A condition like this should not be considered anything other than the deep psychosis it is. Why would a sane God command us to love our enemies when he himself does not? and more to the point, from where would the goodness and persuasion come to love our enemies if not from him whose wondrous love compels us to love even those who hate us?
tc Wow!  Amazing!  We are in total agreement so far.
 
Is it possible to love and hate the same object at the same time? If we define hate as the antithesis of love, I think it would be impossible to do this, because that kind of hate would exclude love. Some hate is anti-love, that is sure, but I think there must also be hate that is something other than this. Jesus tells us we must "hate" our father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, even our own life, or we cannot be his disciples (Luk 14.26). Yet certainly we are to love them too. What kind of hate is this? and how can we love our neighbor as ourselves and at the same time be disciples of Christ if this hate is anti-love? We can go into what I think this "hate" is in another post if you wish, but for the purpose of this discussion, it is obvious that hate does not have to exclude love. It must be possible to love one's father and mother, etc. and hate them at the same time.
tc I think possibly Jesus was making a comparison here.  Our love for God has to be so strong that the love we have for our loved ones would be, by comparison,  puny and weak.  He would not tell us to love our enemy and hate our mother.
 
When we read passages that say God hates certain people -- whether evil, or violent and wicked -- does this mean that he does not love them? Is his hate for them anti-love, or is it some other kind of hate that he holds for those people, maybe something similar to the hate we are to have for ourselves, and mom and dad? This is a fair question and we should try to answer it. We need to be honest, though, when we do, and recognize that our answer will be shaped by our present view of God. The way we "see" God determines the way we think about him. This is true for me; it is true for you too.
 tc I have no doubt that God would prefer to love them.   His nature is to love.  Some people though, will not allow God to love them, or maybe I should say they sneer at His love until His love in exasperation turns to hate, and He gives them over to a reprobate mind.  God loved us first, and like all lovers, He wants that love returned.  As a matter of fact, He demands that that love be returned.
 
Let me tell you what I do think. Love is the heart of God. It speaks to that eternal relationship between the Father and the Son in the Holy Spirit. When we talk about the "essence" of God, love is in the center of it. "God is love." Everything else, whether it be his holiness or justice or whatever, everything else that is essence must be understood only as it relates to his love, as disclosed by the incarnate Word himself.  tc Excellent point.
 
There are other things that God does that are not things which describe him in his essence. Forgiveness, for example, is something that springs from his essence, but is not itself of his essence. I say this because there was nothing to forgive when all there was was God -- Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Wrath is not of the essence of God; there was nothing to be wrathful about until there was sin.  Again, excellent.  Something I had never considered before
 
Just as those things that are of the essence of God must be defined in relationship to love, so also must those that are not. God is patient, and kind, and merciful, and gracious, and forgiving, because he is love. These things flow forth from his love. The same must be said about wrath. Wrath is God's love in action against anything that sets itself to destroy his creation or diminish his worth.  Makes sense.
 
Hate is not of the essence of God. When all there was was that triune relationship between the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, there was no hate (no matter how it is defined) in God. Yet we must say that within the makeup of God (his essence) there is potential to hate, just like there is potential to forgive. We find in Scripture in the verse you mentioned and elsewhere that God does hate, and he hates not only sin but in some cases (at least) the sinner too.  I believe that God has all the emotions that He has given us
 
God is love; he wills to hate. This gets back to my initial complaint. We dare not stand the love of God side-by-side over against his hate, as if he could go one way as willfully as the other. Whatever it means to say that God hates, we must understand it as something that springs forth out of love. I think people can become so wicked and corrupt that all there is, as far as their works, is evil. They have so sold themselves out to sin that they have become totally depraved (cf. Rom 1. 28-32). These are those whom God hates. That said, I do not believe that he ever stops loving them. He is not indifferent. It is because he loves them that he hates them.  That last line does not compute for me.  To me, love/hate is like start/stop or forward/reverse. You can do one followed by the other, sometimes rather quickly, but I cannot picture both at the same time.
 
This we must return to over and over again: whatever the sin that ensnares these people, Christ carried it with him to the cross. For their sins he died. And when he died, they died. And when he rose again, they too rose with him. They are included in him, just like you are and I am; this because God so loves them.  Bill, you just totally lost me.  Maybe you could say it some other way that is more understandable.  I see those who are wicked, as I once was, nowhere near the cross, not covered by the redeeming blood.  That is why they are called lost.

"And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins, in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience, among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others. But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), and raised us up together, and made us sit together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus," (Eph 2.1-6).You might also want to tell me what you think this means sinxe it seems to go with the above paragraph.

I will not stop thinking about your question, Terry. The truth is, it has haunted me for a long time. But I am not comfortable going any further right now. I hope I have given you enough to begin to apprehend where I am coming from.

I really appreciate the effort you have gone to in order to answer my query.  It tells me that we are not always at opposite ends of the spectrum, and there is room to learn from one another.  I was thinking that since you had not responded, that you considered my question to be insincere. Terry

 

Bill

 

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