On Fri, 20 Feb 2004, Brian Siano wrote: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > > > I'm sorry, Dan, but scripture is not clear on this subject. Just as > > the Bible has been manipulated to justify slavery, colonization of > > less developed peoples, and opression of women, scripture is still > > being manipulated to oppress gays and lesbians. > > Interesting arguments, in general. But why bother? There's no such thing > as God. The Bible is not the basis for our legal system. There is _no > reason whatsoever_ to even _bother_ with debating fine points of the > Bible on this matter.
For me - it comes down to this: either throw out the entire domestic partner benefit system on all levels altogether or make it available to any two individuals who wish to enter into a partnership for whatever reason - it doesn't have to do with whether or not the two people stare dreamily into each other's eyes, whether or not they have sex or whether or not they plan to either adopt or procreate on their own - it is simply a social contract. The details of the benefits of the partnership could be worked out so that the advantages would only be if a certain financial criteria were met and the disadvantages of termination would be steep - i.e. You could add this partner to your health plan if they didn't have health benefits available to them elsewhere. The cost of a divorce would be expensive without cause. The dependent benefits of the union of these two individuals would remain as is. This is not a gay issue - gays just fall under its scope. Wouldn't it be nice if two close oppositely sexed friends who chose to build a life and raise artificially inseminated, adopted or foster children or no children at all together could do so and receive the same benefits as a married heterosexual couple with or without kids? They can now if they "cheat" but not all sex combinations can cheat unfortunately. The warranted scenarios are endless and involve each possible combination of sexes. The existing state of this system is the result of heterosexual marriage with children in the picture - I don't think that is very arguable and is probably why a lot of people don't see the issue clearly. The philosophy that is behind what exists now just needs to be applied in a more modern sociological sense - that is what challenges a large portion of our society - especially those who have fundamentalist values with regard to sexuality. I think sexuality has nothing to do with it anymore - it is about support and co-dependence. It does the issue a disservice when it is centered on same-sex unions - that just provokes opposition in the fundamentalist ranks. The issue then comes down to whether or not you sanction homosexuality which should have nothing to do with this. If the focus was on giving equal benefits to any two individuals who wished to enter into a co-dependent partnership then I think opposition would not be so strictly against it if it were presented properly. But the deed is done - it has become strictly a gay issue in most peoples minds and you can't go back in time. To say that the bible is not the basis of our legal system is a bit naive. I think it played a big role in the lives and morality of all the lawmakers that have contributed to it. I don't think I need to elaborate on that one. -- Sam Nicolary ---- You are receiving this because you are subscribed to the list named "UnivCity." To unsubscribe or for archive information, see <http://www.purple.com/list.html>.
