If you feel lost and need a community of people where you feel comfortable, then it's best to join a club. I'm not trying to be flip here, I don't mean it that way. It's important for us to be with people who have like-minds and like-experiences where we are comfortable and feel like we can just be 'ourselves' with no judgement. But, it sounds like you're looking to Zen for your social needs. That's not what Zen is for. Zen clears away all of that and gets us to our core - where we are all one.
The useful sanghas I have been involved with in the past - groups of folks studying in homes, groups using community buildings and Zen Temples - had one thing in common, and that's that the people involved had nothing in common, except a desire to shed all the BS and become one. My two cents... --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, "wanghualia_5" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > I am Gay, and I practice zazen. Is there any sangha or Zen Temple for Gay/lesbians? >