Thanks for the input Paul. I’ve never heard of banding but my hemorrhoids are 
on the inside, they don’t really hang. They poke out a little bit every now and 
then but I don’t think banding would work for me. If they do get worse I 
probably will look into surgery. They say soaking them helps too which I 
haven’t tried much but I probably will.

Lissette Whitehead
(949)505-8005
________________________________
From: Paul Jacobson <pjacob...@san.rr.com>
Sent: Sunday, October 2, 2022 4:07:12 PM
To: Danny Hearn <ddh...@sbcglobal.net>; Carla Aarssen <caars...@hotmail.com>; 
Shala Silverstein <chopsk...@gmail.com>; quad-list@eskimo.com 
<quad-list@eskimo.com>; Lissette Whitehead <lissw...@hotmail.com>
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Fingers crossed that I'm doing this properly. If not just 
send it back. Thanks.

Hi Lissette,

I am exactly like you....hemorrhoids, back sleeper and spasms when I first lay 
down.
I am in tons of discomfort during the BP.  It always takes me 2 – 3 hours to 
feel
better.  After the BP, it always feels like I still have to go but that 
resolves.

I take Miralax every other day, Benifiber each day, D-Mannose  each day and 
fiber
pills each day. Stay away from using creams for prolonged use, as this can thin 
the
skin, which would make matters worse.

I did look into hemorrhoid banding but decided to pass.  This could be a 
solution.

Wish you well,
pj

From: Danny Hearn
Sent: Sunday, October 2, 2022 3:37 PM
To: Carla Aarssen ; Shala Silverstein ; quad-list@eskimo.com ; Lissette 
Whitehead
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Fingers crossed that I'm doing this properly. If not just 
send it back. Thanks.

The method used to help clear bowels is Digital Stimulation, True most Quads 
get hemorrhoids, some need to get them treated or removed....so far I have been 
okay with  creams when they get bad. AS far as the problem when doing bowel 
routine...many Quads told me that Miralax can really help and can be taken 
regularly if needed, also was told fiber can help . Dan ***

On Sunday, October 2, 2022 at 05:06:21 PM CDT, Lissette Whitehead 
<lissw...@hotmail.com> wrote:


Sorry, I meant to reply to Shala but thanks for your input Carla! 😊

Lissette Whitehead
(949)505-8005
________________________________
From: Lissette Whitehead <lissw...@hotmail.com>
Sent: Sunday, October 2, 2022 3:03:26 PM
To: Carla Aarssen <caars...@hotmail.com>; Shala Silverstein 
<chopsk...@gmail.com>; quad-list@eskimo.com <quad-list@eskimo.com>
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Fingers crossed that I'm doing this properly. If not just 
send it back. Thanks.

Hello Carla, I recently discovered that I have hemorrhoids as well, I guess 
from so much constipation and didge shimming. I also noticed increased spasms, 
especially when I’m in bed, it’s not too bad, it’s usually just when I first 
lay down and then they calm down. I think my mattress helps a lot, it’s a gel 
mattress, however I do have a big butt which probably helps too. I can’t sleep 
on my side because my shoulders start hurting after 15-20 minutes, so I sleep 
on my back all night. I’ve tried hemorrhoid creams but didn’t help much. I read 
that taking an anti-inflammatory could help, I haven’t tried it yet but I think 
the best thing to do is to address the hemorrhoids. I think also fiber rich 
diet might help. Also, not sure if the hemorrhoids are obstructing my bowels 
from coming out, because I've been having the hardest time lately. Maybe seeing 
a doctor for the hemorrhoid issue it's not a bad idea.

Lissette Whitehead
(949)505-8005
________________________________
From: Carla Aarssen <caars...@hotmail.com>
Sent: Sunday, October 2, 2022 10:02:23 AM
To: Shala Silverstein <chopsk...@gmail.com>; quad-list@eskimo.com 
<quad-list@eskimo.com>
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Fingers crossed that I'm doing this properly. If not just 
send it back. Thanks.

Do you have an air mattress? Because they are awesome for relieving pressure. 
Most of the time I set mine to float but if I have a pressure sore I set it to 
alternate and it will move air side to side kind of like you are doing with 
pillow but more often and while you sleep.
I also have issues with hemorrhoids I spent 4yrs every 3 months having them 
banded (rubber bands caught off blood supply) and they would fall off within 4 
days. But Dr told me we would never get ahead this way so he finally referred 
me to a surgeon to have them removed. That was at the beginning of Covid 
unfortunately I am still on waiting list for surgery.
Anyway I am same level quad as you and my accident was in 2002 so almost as 
many years post injury as well. If you would like to share with eachother my 
email is caars...@hotmail.com. You can also find me on Facebook.
Wishing you all the best!
Carla Aarssen

Get Outlook for Android<https://aka.ms/AAb9ysg>
________________________________
From: Shala Silverstein <chopsk...@gmail.com>
Sent: Sunday, October 2, 2022 12:28:47 AM
To: quad-list@eskimo.com <quad-list@eskimo.com>
Subject: [QUAD-L] Fingers crossed that I'm doing this properly. If not just 
send it back. Thanks.

Hello my name is Shala & I had a car accident in 1999 that left me a complete 
C-4,5 & 6 quadriplegic. Since then I've had a couple bumps in the road but 
nothing major. Now almost 24 years later, I think some things are taking a toll 
on my body & I've come to a crossroad & am looking for some experienced advice. 
That being said let me tell you about my situation, I'm sure most quads will 
understand when I say that bowel movements can be tough, we need assistance. 
I've heard it referred to as "ditch stem", & manual disimpaction. Well after 
doing things this way for usually 5 days out of the week, I've ended up with 
some hemorrhoids. So when nighttime comes I'm unable to lay flat on my back not 
only because of the hemorrhoids but because of my bony coccyx. For the last 10 
years I've used a pregnancy pillow, and to keep me over on my side I'll use a 
wedge or a regular pillow. After 2 hours I'm awoken in such pain in my back 
because of either the pillow or the wedge, so I will switch sides and it starts 
all over again. I'm wondering if anybody else deals with these two problems and 
has a better way of staying off their coccyx and their butt area. Looking 
forward to any advice, Shala.

Reply via email to