Hi rahul sorry for a long mail it may sound harsh to you but the main problam is the sighted guide please don't mind but after passing your 12th you should devote some time specially to have a nice mobility training and when you sit in your group then you should take active partisipation in their conversations they will automatically ask you for hang outs I had also faced the same situation when I was at school because school students have a fear in their mind about handeling a blind or low vision person I had a positive thing with me that I used to be an outstanding student in my school as well as college so many people got excited to talk to me and after that they became my good friends when I passed my school I had a large number of friends and other suggesting me to study with distence education plan because they thought that going alone to college was not my cup of tea my parents also thought that way but when I went to college they are quite satisfied with me I also remember the 1st day of my college One of my sighted friend who was my class mate earlier had dropped me to my class an unknown person helped me to aquire a seet in class when the lecturor came she asked us to present our selves by giving a brief introduction I was the 1st to go when I finished my introduction the lecturor asked me some special questions about my life which I answered quite patiently then I had allmost 10 to 15 people gathered around me after the class they were qurious about their low vision friend soon I got familiar with them now they tell me that when we saw the very 1st day they we got very imotional specially the girls they call me to see movie or just to have a nice hang out they didn't had any idea to handle me in earlier they used to pull me behind them then I told them the right way to handle me when I go in class then if I recorganise somebody I say hi to him or her if not then they will come to my seet to meet me if you want some tips then get in touch I will be happy to help you regards
On 11/28/11, shyam sharma <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi Rahul, don't worry. Don't take it as a biggest problem of your > life. As far as I think there is only one solution to it. If someone > is not asking you then you should go and approach to him/her. Keep > proving yourself to them that though you've not eyes but you can see > everthing. keep friendship with them more strong than they do. Try to > win their heart over. Never mind what their behaviour is to you just > be positive and try everything without loosing your heart. > One more important thing which I want to mention here that I would > like to make friendship with you. Would you? > > [email protected] > > with warm regards: > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > [email protected] > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > -- Ajay Minocha Mob : +91-7827188455 E mail : [email protected] [email protected] Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ To unsubscribe send a message to [email protected] with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
