Everyone, unlike me, seems to be excellent at studies! First time I failed in the half yearly exams of class 6th. I became really naughty. Save a few teachers, everyone had thrashed me at La Martiniere Boys. I was promoted with warning in 7th where again I failed in the half yearly exams. My chair used to be apart from the entire class. But my fun was appreciated and thankfully I was never short of friends. You need to enjoy yourself and make the people laugh around to make friends!
PersonalityAndEnglish.blogspot.com On 11/28/11, Ajay Minocha <[email protected]> wrote: > here I would also like to add one more thing > till my 10th standard mymom used to drop and pick me up from my school > I didn't have many friends then > but when in 11th My mom became ill > then I started to come alone > and in just 1 year I was socialised with most of the class > we should be keen to help others in what ever way we can > then nobody can remain alone without a group > earlier my friends used to have a fear in their mind about handling me > but now the hold my hand but I take care of my self > in markets molls or cinemas > > regards > > On 11/28/11, Zujar Shabbir Kanchwala <[email protected]> wrote: >> I agree with Ajay, I have been through similar situations in >> school/college. I remember my first day in college when I could not >> find anyone of my school mates, so just went and sat besides an >> unknown student who was constantly talking with his school buddy on >> the other side. Some teachers asked us to introduce ourselves with >> name and marks for the specific subject where I was one of the top >> scorers. By the end of the day, my bench partner asked me how I would >> go home, how I study, etc and the next day, he asked me if I need >> something from the canteen. I joined him to the canteen and thereafter >> we became friends. I've experienced that people are more comfortable >> with independent movers maybe, they feel like being free from worrying >> about the challenged friend. Everyone on the list must have had unique >> experiences and may think in their own way. >> >> On 11/28/11, Alla rakhi <[email protected]> wrote: >>> What has been said by ajay is absolutely true. You'll never be counted >>> as a friend on equal terms by your sighted counterparts unless you're >>> independant in mobility. but on the other hand, mind you that, if you >>> can handle yourself independantly without being dependant all the time >>> on others then you'll find that hardly do your sighted friends >>> distinguish you from others. Be mobile and good in socialising and >>> daily living skills, then you'll find most of things in the society >>> become normal to you even if you are a totally blind. Mustering good >>> mobility skills is no rocketry science but it definitely require a >>> strong will power an a desire for it. >>> >>> On 11/28/11, Ajay Minocha <[email protected]> wrote: >>>> Hi rahul >>>> sorry for a long mail >>>> >>>> it may sound harsh to you >>>> but the main problam is the sighted guide >>>> please don't mind but after passing your 12th you should devote some >>>> time specially to have a nice mobility training >>>> and when you sit in your group >>>> then you should take active partisipation in their conversations >>>> they will automatically ask you for hang outs >>>> I had also faced the same situation when I was at school >>>> because school students have a fear in their mind about handeling a >>>> blind or low vision person >>>> I had a positive thing with me >>>> that I used to be an outstanding student in my school as well as college >>>> so many people got excited to talk to me >>>> and after that they became my good friends >>>> when I passed my school I had a large number of friends and other >>>> suggesting me to study with distence education plan >>>> because they thought that going alone to college was not my cup of tea >>>> my parents also thought that way >>>> but when I went to college they are quite satisfied with me >>>> I also remember the 1st day of my college >>>> One of my sighted friend who was my class mate earlier >>>> had dropped me to my class >>>> an unknown person helped me to aquire a seet in class >>>> when the lecturor came she asked us to present our selves by giving a >>>> brief introduction >>>> I was the 1st to go >>>> when I finished my introduction the lecturor asked me some special >>>> questions about my life >>>> which I answered quite patiently >>>> then I had allmost 10 to 15 people gathered around me >>>> after the class they were qurious about their low vision friend >>>> soon I got familiar with them >>>> now they tell me that when we saw the very 1st day they we got very >>>> imotional >>>> specially the girls >>>> they call me to see movie or just to have a nice hang out >>>> they didn't had any idea to handle me >>>> in earlier they used to pull me behind them >>>> then I told them the right way to handle me >>>> when I go in class then if I recorganise somebody I say hi to him or her >>>> if not then they will come to my seet to meet me >>>> if you want some tips then get in touch >>>> I will be happy to help you >>>> regards >>>> >>>> On 11/28/11, shyam sharma <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>> Hi Rahul, don't worry. Don't take it as a biggest problem of your >>>>> life. As far as I think there is only one solution to it. If someone >>>>> is not asking you then you should go and approach to him/her. Keep >>>>> proving yourself to them that though you've not eyes but you can see >>>>> everthing. keep friendship with them more strong than they do. Try to >>>>> win their heart over. Never mind what their behaviour is to you just >>>>> be positive and try everything without loosing your heart. >>>>> One more important thing which I want to mention here that I would >>>>> like to make friendship with you. Would you? >>>>> >>>>> [email protected] >>>>> >>>>> with warm regards: >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>>>> >>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>> [email protected] >>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>> >>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>>> please >>>>> visit the list home page at >>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>> >>>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> -- >>>> Ajay Minocha >>>> Mob : +91-7827188455 >>>> E mail : [email protected] >>>> [email protected] >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> [email protected] >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please >>>> visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>> >>>> >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> [email protected] >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >> >> >> -- >> Best Regards, >> Zujar... >> >> An optimist laughs to forget, whereas a pessimist forgets to laugh! >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> [email protected] >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> > > > -- > Ajay Minocha > Mob : +91-7827188455 > E mail : [email protected] > [email protected] > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > [email protected] > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > -- Develop your personality and English at http://PersonalityAndEnglish.blogspot.com/ Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ To unsubscribe send a message to [email protected] with the subject unsubscribe. 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