Hi RS you are admitting that a desire for women can arise and that is healtly BUT you are advocating that it is advisable not to go near women. Effectively, you are preaching "repression" of the senses and/ or "denial" of one's desires. Knowing that repression and denial can only mess the person (man or woman) in a much worse way than having a relationship can do, wouldn't be healthier to let people get married or have their relationships? If what arises is "desire", isn't the option of suppressing it far more unhealthy than actually fulfilling that desire? Isn't in the books taught that 'moderation' is the key to everything?
It looks like to me that you are swinging from one extreme to another ...or perhaps you are a teenager and this would explain lots of things. Cheers. Kali On 26 Lug, 16:10, roomsearching <[email protected]> wrote: > for some reason, it is the woman who really screws up a man's mind. > Even Socrates became a philosopher after he met his terrible wife. > No man can ever win against a woman. > Hence it is advised to stay far away from women if you are into > spirituality. > But a deep desire for women is a good sign because that will finally help > you to develop a big ego and finally destroy that ego. > > > > On Mon, Jul 26, 2010 at 3:05 PM, Rodger <[email protected]> wrote: > > Marriage can be very enlightening. > > > On Jul 26, 8:41 am, roomsearching <[email protected]> wrote: > > > It happened to me already. So you are still on the waiting list. And > > married > > > people can forget about it. > > > Marriage and enlightenment do not go together. UG had to leave his family > > > behind and live like a vagabond to reach enlightenment. > > > If you talk about things like enlightenment, your wife will kill you. > > > > On Mon, Jul 26, 2010 at 2:28 PM, <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > Are you waiting for some kind of mystical sensation to confirm > > > > enlightenment happened? > > > > Can enlightenment happen without no associated special sensation? > > > > Sent via BlackBerry from Vodafone- Nascondi testo citato > > - Mostra testo citato -
