Kali, Everything is possible. I am just saying that its much easier to reach enlightenment without a bitch beside you who screws up your mind. Especially ones who go to parties, try control and manipulate you and tell you what to do , what to wear, constantly nagging you, comparing you with other men, running after other men, cheating on you, shopping all the time -- all these things happen very normally. And most women don't give a shit about enlightenment ie. 99.99 % of women. An ego is an ego and all women have it. I have never been married but I have had a very destructive girlfriend who was very good looking. Obviously you have to have an ugly good hearted wife for a supportive relationship. I don't think I need an ugly partner as I think it will destroy my life, unless I really fall in love with her - which is not very probable. To be honest, I really have no interest in women and try to be as far away from them as possible. Of course, these are all just my thoughts. I may be married in a couple of years. But at the moment I am just enjoying my bachelorhood at the age of 30.
On Mon, Jul 26, 2010 at 4:02 PM, Mahakali <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi RS > > has it ever occurred to you that, perhaps, the wife in question i.e. > married to an enlightened man, might be of the supportive type rather > than the non-supportive type? > > If a guru's marriage does not work, is it fair to attribute that the > fact he is enlightened? Or, is the guru - for example Eli (Gangaji's > husband) - just another human being making human mistakes and faults? > Are gurus allowed to be human or are they to be put on a pedestal? > > Kali > > > > On 26 Lug, 15:41, roomsearching <[email protected]> wrote: > > It happened to me already. So you are still on the waiting list. And > married > > people can forget about it. > > Marriage and enlightenment do not go together. UG had to leave his family > > behind and live like a vagabond to reach enlightenment. > > If you talk about things like enlightenment, your wife will kill you. > > > > > > > > On Mon, Jul 26, 2010 at 2:28 PM, <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Are you waiting for some kind of mystical sensation to confirm > > > enlightenment happened? > > > Can enlightenment happen without no associated special sensation? > > > Sent via BlackBerry from Vodafone- Nascondi testo citato > > > > - Mostra testo citato -
