Re: Help with hazing issue (may get controversial)
So, I sent the sister the topic. Now all of that strength is gone, and she wants to do nothing but help her brother. I am telling her that these opinions are before her and I started talking, but it isn't working. So, what do I do now? Her strength is gone, she is starting to get the attitude she needs to fight for freedom, but now she is dead set on caring for her brother.
Update, I am working on it. No one is to blame, this was before the sister and I started talking. But goes to show just how careful you need to think about things. A fair ending doesn't always happen, it's life, and her job is not to make this end fair, her responsibility is not to get him help, it's to get her a new family who loves her. It is not my responsibility to get him help either, nor my friend's. Does that mean I don't care at all? No, but it is not my job, it is not within my control. I need to focus on my part of the issue, and I do not expect anyone to know how serious this really is, and can't blame anyone, but this is a situation where safety is more important than a fair outcome, maybe at first it wasn't, and like I said I do not mean to blame anyone for saying or thinking what they did, but now it is at a point that our mindset needs to change. At least in my opinion. Her having the fair ending opinion certainly isn't going to help her, I know that because she was just influenced by it and I'm having to have to snap her out of it.
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