Here here, from a lurker, who doesn't have enough family info yet to do more.  

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> On May 18, 2014, at 11:04 AM, "\"E\" Sharp" <[email protected]> wrote:
> 
> I'm with Celeste, the other long timers and all the newbies on this list who 
> sincerely appreciates all the hard work Cheri has put into maintaining the 
> list in a friendly and professional manner...a great big THANK YOU, CHERI.
> 
> "E"
> 
> 
>> On Sun, May 18, 2014 at 10:43 AM, Kathy Cardoza <[email protected]> wrote:
>> Doug and All Listers
>> 
>> I’ve read the recent posts by Doug Holmes and now this response by Cheri and 
>> felt like adding my two cents worth in…..
>> 
>> You know, this list works the same way that every other list I’ve ever 
>> belonged to does. That is, there could be hundreds or even a few thousand 
>> subscribers, but only a small percentage of people actually post. The rest 
>> lurk. They read and learn from the posts, but don’t post anything. I pretty 
>> much count myself in that lurker group. I read the posts (most of them) but 
>> rarely respond to any. That’s just human nature for most of us. I’m quite 
>> certain, though, that we are all learning from what is posted here. Further, 
>> I support Cheri 100%. She maintains this list, for the good of all of us. It 
>> is not an easy task to keep us all on task and the discussions pertinent to 
>> genealogy. She spends a lot of time and effort on this and deserves our 
>> respect and appreciation for that.
>> 
>> For those who may not know me, I am the coordinator of the Azores GenWeb 
>> site. I’m responsible for maintaining the site and providing content to it. 
>> It’s main purpose is to provide information and resources for beginning 
>> genealogists. On the main page (link below) you will find a section on 
>> Researchers for Hire. If you want to If you haven’t already checked it out, 
>> I invite you to do so. 
>> 
>> Doug, I think you should count me as one of those folks who are unclear 
>> about your intent by offering a “gift.” Frankly, I find it odd that you 
>> would do so and, to me, it   makes me uncomfortable. I’m not trying to 
>> suggest that this is a scam……. just that it almost seems that way but I’m 
>> sure that was not your intention?
>> 
>> As for the free DNA testing you are offering……. on the surface that seems 
>> very nice of you. But, I wonder …… is this something you will freely share 
>> with others? Or will you somehow figure out how to charge the rest of us for 
>> the information you are gleaning from it? I know from personal experience 
>> with you when I shared my husband’s ancestry from Terceira, that you like to 
>> accept what others send you to increase your database but offer nothing in 
>> return ….. unless we pay for it. Is that what this is about? I’m sure you 
>> have some supporters, but I’m not one of then. Not now. Not ever. You are 
>> all about the money. You don’t share anything at all, unless you get paid 
>> for your services. It’s just your way but you should, at least, be up front 
>> about it.
>> 
>> Kathy Cardoza
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>> Visit the Azores GenWeb Project:
>>      http://www.rootsweb.com/~azrwgw/index.html
>> 
>> Climb my Family Tree:
>>      http://www.kathys-place.com/index.html
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>> 
>> 
>> 
>>> On May 17, 2014, at 8:22 PM, Cheri Mello <[email protected]> wrote:
>>> 
>>> Doug,
>>> 
>>> I've posted from time to time how many subscribers are on this list.  
>>> Anyone can find that number by going out to the Web board/Forum board and 
>>> clicking the "About" link.  The only  reason I mention it is to make people 
>>> aware that they are emailing 1200 people, some of whom are still working or 
>>> have limited time on their hands.  The list is active with genealogy posts 
>>> (sometimes 20 in a day) and I would like the posts to be meaningful for the 
>>> 1200 subscribers.  Reading a single post that says "Thanks!" is imposing on 
>>> people's time and is not meaningful nor helpful in someone's genealogical 
>>> search.  
>>> 
>>> After teaching kids and teenagers math and then adults DNA and genealogy, I 
>>> know how it works.  Teach something.  You get questions from some of the 
>>> audience (class) at the end.  People (even kids) raise their hand and ask 
>>> questions.  The vast majority take the information that was presented and 
>>> walk away with it.  Then there are the few people that come up and ask a 
>>> question in private.  Same thing with this list.  The vast majority of 
>>> people read, take the information, and walk away with it.  Some people 
>>> raise their hand (post) their question for all to see.  And a few email 
>>> privately to ask a question.  
>>> 
>>> Since your last post, I've received a number of emails about the underlying 
>>> intent of that post.  You'll give people a gift who email you?  Geez, 
>>> you're sounding like a used car salesman!  All of us who have been into 
>>> this awhile know you do research for hire.  It's posted on the Azores 
>>> GenWeb for all to see along with the list of other researchers for hire.  
>>> And when someone asks for a researcher for hire, I post that link.  So if 
>>> you are drumming up business, just say so.  But to bribe people with a 
>>> gift....sounds like those time share things where you sit for 3 hours and 
>>> listen to their spiel for the "gift" at the end.  And we all know that many 
>>> of those things are shady.  I'm sure you don't want to be known as the 
>>> "shady" genealogist!
>>> 
>>> And the DNA offer?  Sorry to tell you this, but we've already been doing 
>>> fundraising.  We've raised funds for certain lines that we wanted tested 
>>> and the money was put into the General Fund at FTDNA.  Basically an escrow 
>>> account.  That way, I don't have to handle the money and try to keep track 
>>> of it.  Money can create problems. Just giving money to one person with no 
>>> backing....I prefer the fiduciary set up that FTDNA has.  And it was nice 
>>> having it there in another project I manage.  People contributed money 
>>> towards a kit and then they decided not to pursue that line.  FTDNA knew 
>>> who donated what and refunded it all back.  Seriously, people are going to 
>>> send you money and for all we know, you're using it to buy something you've 
>>> been eyeballing!
>>> 
>>> Cheri Mello
>>> Listowner, Azores-Gen
>>> Researching: Vila Franca, Ponta Garca, Ribeira Quente, Ribeira das Tainhas, 
>>> Achada
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