At 15:45 25-01-2003 -0600, Ronn Blankenship wrote:
That's not an option, not with the threats that I have to live with. Arnett has put restrictions on what I can put in my .sig, he has put restrictions on what topics I may discuss on-list, he even has put restrictions on what topics I may discuss with him OFF-LIST. The minute I violate one of those restrictions, he will kick me off the list -- permanently!Unfortunately, my resentments are caused by your behaviour. IOW, my resentments are directly tied to you. So, for my *resentments* to go away...And I wish you luck in letting go of your resentments. If you succeed, I'm quite sure you'll find greater peace.
(I will leave finishing that sentence as an exercise for the reader.)
�you need to decide that they are costing you more than whatever benefit you get out of them, and decide to quit holding on to them.
Also, I have to live with the knowledge (based on personal experience) that even if I defend myself against a personal attack, and my attacker shows much worse behaviour than I am showing, it will be *me* who will be silenced by Arnett, not my attacker.
Even this message might be enough to be kicked off the list. :-(
Resentments are rather hard to drop, with threats like that hanging over my head... :-(
Jeroen "History will prove me right" van Baardwijk
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