On Sun, Sep 28, 2008 at 9:18 PM, CyberAngel wrote: > Gee Denstar... > > And I thought I could rant and rave..... > > Now that is not saying your adivice or comments are going to be ignored > either, the problem is that we know he's been depressed for awhile. But it's > only been the last few months that has seen him retreat, as a friend who has > known him almost all his life I am doing the best I can with what knowledge > I know. > > The hardest part, as I think you indicated is how:-( > > So much to digest again:-)
Yeah, I can really go on, can't I? :-) Didn't mean to overwhelm, although I know it's a lot to digest. I'm a big picture kind of guy, but it's all about these little pieces, coming together. Takes a lot of letters to even cover bits of a few. :-)p ....I thought I remembered you posting something similar a while back... Don't let my verbosity get the best of you. Dana condensed what I said pretty well. :-) Mental states have always played a big role in my life, and I've got strong feelings and whatnot. You're doing great, and he's lucky to have a friend like you. I believe it's the people who love us who are most capable of pulling us out of our funks. Ironically, when you love someone, you don't like to see them hurting. It's selfish, but it's instinct, because we're empathic. Just being there is helping, no matter how helpless you feel. You're very strong to be trying. There is no "right" answer, other than that big one, meaning, what will be, will be. I like to think that even the bad is ultimately for the good. It's a moot point, really, but giving it a shot, rocks. So here's to you! -- And I'm sending some mellow, come-back-out-and-play type vibes your friend's way, if he wants them. Who knows, maybe we're all connected, sorta, and it will help. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software 8 is the most important and dramatic release to date Get the Free Trial http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;207172674;29440083;f Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:271299 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
