not much about the south, in that light, is a societal norm. i guess i should have clarified... "humanity norm"
On Mon, May 23, 2011 at 7:35 PM, Maureen <[email protected]> wrote: > > On Mon, May 23, 2011 at 3:42 PM, Ras Tafari <[email protected]> wrote: >> >> there are societal "norms" that are not that hard to fall in line with > > I grew up in the south, where the societal "norm" was racism, sexism > and homophobia. > >> trust me, i know a lot who did, and by god their kids are fucking successful. > > And I can show you many people who were raised on those "norms" who > are dysfunctional beyond belief. > >> trust me further, that i know a lot who did not, and by the same > > I can also introduce to some, including me, whose parents totally > ignored the norms, who turned out quite well. > >> fucking god, they are losers. > > And I can show you an equal number of people whose parents forced them > into pre-defined roles who are losers of the worst sort. > >> being a loser is sometimes a generational thing, beat only by sheer >> determination and will. > > And sometime being a loser is not having enough determination to stand > up to those who would force you into their "norms". > >> (and because its this list) trust me a step further, if you will, i >> know some that beat the odds on both sides. >> >> dude, just trust me... this kid is fucked. i can only image the next >> experiment the loon's will come up with next. > > This child is probably going to be seriously messed up, but so will > the child who is gender confused whose parents forces hir into the > "norm". >> >> and sure, calling you a dude, is odd, but, since its not really that >> big of a deal, cool... dude > > It's ok to call me dude. I'm enough of a nerd to deserve me. > > >> On Mon, May 23, 2011 at 6:36 PM, Maureen <[email protected]> wrote: >>> >>> You're conflating sexual preference with gender preference. They are >>> very different. Sexual preference rarely changes when someone >>> undergoes gender reassignment. >>> >>> It's their kid. Why should they raise according to other people's >>> ideals? You want someone telling you how to raise your kids? >>> >>> On Mon, May 23, 2011 at 1:16 PM, Ras Tafari <[email protected]> wrote: >>>> >>>> and even more... its diff sexually. >>>> you could be more a girl, than a guy, but still be into girls, and be >>>> a guy. or vice-versa. >>>> dude, this kid may end up being the most fucked kid in history. >>>> >>>> way to go Chromosome donors. way to go. you cant even be called parents. >>> >>> >> >> > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusion-Anthology/dp/1430272155/?tag=houseoffusion Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:338235 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/unsubscribe.cfm
