On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 11:51 AM, Vivec <[email protected]> wrote: > > You don't get to make what if decisions on the lives of other people, > without facts. >
What decision did I make on the lives of other people? That she (they actually) need help? > > Are you denying that couples get into a violent argument, and the > relationship is not an abusive one? > Physical abuse is but one type of abuse - and it often goes hand in hand with emotional and sexual abuse I will say that if a man punches his fiance in the face, rendering her unconscious, that is abusive behavior - whether it was the first or 50th time he hit her. > Are you denying that couples go to counselling, talk about it, work things > out, and can go on to have a happy family? > Nope, not at all. But, unless she/he/they want the help, no amount of counseling will work. Also, there are things that counseling might not work for. I think I would put 'knocking your fiance unconscious' on that list - close to the top. > > On 10 September 2014 11:30, Scott Stroz <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > > > So, hit her once, get a pass. Hit her again...now we have a problem? > > > > So, your solution is to do nothing until he hits her again? What if the > > next time he does permanent and/or fatal damage? > > > > I resent the implication that I am saying she is 'crazy' because I think > > she is involved in an abusive relationship, and goes to further my > opinion > > that you have never had any kind of experience with anyone in an abusive > > relationship. > > > > You sound even more like Rick. If that is truly how you feel, I am > > disappointed. > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusion-Anthology/dp/1430272155/?tag=houseoffusion Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:372395 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/unsubscribe.cfm
