I understand you were saying what-if. And in doing so you compared a grown adult to a child.
You did that , not me. That's all I was pointing out to you. I understand the point you were trying to make. And I think it was irrelevant, UNLESS you were comparing an adult to a 12 year old child, at which point I thought it was a belittling comparison. *"With the disclaimer that I am not a qualified medical professional, I think* *she is in an abusive relationship. "* And that right there is where we part ways with agreeing. Because you do not have enough information to make that determination. And we are not talking about all domestic disputes, we not talking about all women that abuse their husbands, or all husbands that abuse their wives. We are talking about this single isolated incident. Anything else you say is pure and total speculation on your part regarding these two people. And that speculation does neither of them any favours, and isn't "Good". If tomorrow evidence comes out that this is an ongoing abuse either by him or by her in their relationship, I'd be the first to say you are right, she needs to get out and everything else that you have said. But as of now, you don't know. You and everyone else is speculating. And by doing so you are basically saying that woman is crazy, she is not in control of her faculties, and so you, TMZ, the Media and the Public get to make decisions for her, and get to decide what is right for her. Let me flip it. Based on what I saw, I think she abuses Rice, and that Ray Rice is in an abusive relationship. And he snapped in that elevator. He was drunk, she was drunk....she came at him again like she always does, cussing and shouting at him, and slapping him around...and he snapped. How's that? On 10 September 2014 10:51, Scott Stroz <[email protected]> wrote: > I did not say she was a child, I was playing the 'what if; game that Rick > was so keen on playing to see when the victim is no longer to blame for > getting hit. > > You then turned around and made the inference that I was saying all women > are like children. > > With the disclaimer that I am not a qualified medical professional, I think > she is in an abusive relationship. That abuse may not always be physical, > but abuse need not be physical to be damaging. I have seen, more times than > I care to remember, people who defend their abusers and blame everyone else > for the problem - and this includes men who were being abused. > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusion-Anthology/dp/1430272155/?tag=houseoffusion Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:372383 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/unsubscribe.cfm
