My understanding is that both bipolarism and depression hit most
commonly between about 16 and about 25.  But I didn't pay that much
attention to the stats on bipolarism, so I could be wrong.

--benD

Deanna Schneider wrote:

> I wouldn't agree that bipolar has to show up while someone is still a minor.
> It often shows up in the early 20's, at least that's what I was told by the
> counselors when the guy I was living with suddenly went manic on me (okay,
> in hindsight it wasn't suddenly, but at the time it sure felt like a thwap
> upside the head).
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Dana Tierney" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Friday, October 24, 2003 2:45 AM
> Subject: Re: depression
>
>  > The problem here is that he is not a minor. If there was no sign of this
>  > when he was, then my (non-expert) opinion is that it is probably not
>  > bipolar. This does not mean it isnt serious though. I would sit down with
>  > him, you and your wife, and use every bit of parental authority that you
>  > have to say look son, you are not like this, there is something wrong,
>  > honest, please come with us to this doctor. And choose the doctor
> carefully
>  > beforehand as you may not get a second chance. But I take all this
> sort of
>  > stuff seriously; a good friend of mine killed himself and it was after I
>  > blew him off thinking he was't serious.
>  >
>  > Dana
>  >
>  >
>  > > We're convinced our son (almost 23) either has depression, bipolar, or
>  > > both. But he hates doctors, and has the "I am a Vulcan, there is no
>  > > pain" attitude <bs>. He comes over with a little dark rain cloud over
>  > > him, mopes, won't talk about it, brings us all down. But you can't get
>  > > him to go get a workup let alone meds. <heavy sigh>.
>  > >
>  > > -Ben
>  > >
>  > > >> just feels weak.
>  > > >> raised in the type of family where mental stuff is handled by, just
>  > > get over
>  > > >> it.
>  > > >
>  > > >My Dad is very much like that.  It took a while for him to start to
>  > > >understand why I couldn't just power my way through it.
>  > > >
>  > > >But remember that clinical depression is as much a medical problem
> as a
>  > >
>  > > >bad back or a blown knee.
>  > > >
>  > > >> but then again my grandmother was institutionalized most her life,
>  > > but the
>  > > >> mental part was never addressed, just shocked or drugged until
> calm..
>  > > >> sad really.
>  > > >
>  > > >That is sad.  Unfortunately, it's also historically
> common.  Things are
>  > >
>  > > >appalling when the more fortunate solution was to just keep someone
>  > > home
>  > > >and never let the neighbors see.  :-(
>  > > >
>  > > >--Ben
>  > > >
>  > > >
>  > >   _____
>  > >
>  > >
>  > >
>  >
>
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