I think there is plenty to argue again, but I am afraid this thread is
being endless and hence I want to stop it
at least from my side and will go change diapers of our youngest ;-)
Cheers
Michael
Andreas Hartmann wrote:
Michael Wechner schrieb:
[...]
thanks for expressing your feelings and I will try to be more gentle,
but I am afraid that this won't help,
I guess it would help - maybe not being more gentle, but being
more direct and trying to avoid fallacies, comparisons, and
emotional means of argumentation.
because it seems to me from your sentence above
you (and Thorsten and Gregor) are not able to differentiate between my
statements/questions and the feelings you have towards myself.
I think you can't conclude anything about Thorsten and Gregor
from my statement.
As far as I'm concerned - I try not to be biased by personal emotions.
I have the feeling that you see yourself in a corner, being
misunderstood and attacked by other members of the community, and
this might have lead to the problematic discussion style I mentioned
above.
We can't erase the past or neglect any emotions and experiences,
so we should be especially careful about our style of writing.
I also think it's a pity, but you might want to try and ask yourself
honestly if it's different or not
resp.
you might want to re-read my original post
http://article.gmane.org/gmane.comp.cms.lenya.devel/20000
As I understand it, the discussion started to become emotionally
problematic when you accused Thorsten of not wanting to tell
his reasons for proposing Bob, thus violating the concepts
of openness and transparency. Maybe you didn't intend to accuse him,
but I understood the mail like this.
It's absolutely fine to question a policy or guideline, but it
would have been more tactful not to do this in a thread which
involves particular people which could feel accused (Thorsten
and Bob). I agree with Gregor's reply [1].
-- Andreas
[1] http://article.gmane.org/gmane.comp.cms.lenya.devel/20023
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