Hi, Education is very important in my life. Life Without education like lamp without light. So education is the very important role our life.
Thanks & Regards Amit Thakur On Mon, Jul 6, 2009 at 2:14 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > > Hi NgoNam Pablo Oshiro Claire and all other still silent ones,;) > > There's another point you haven't discussed which seems very common > among parents. > > Quite a lot of them,including me sometimes,tend to be either over- > protective of their children or over-lenient to them. > > Children being brought up that way become too dependent on their > parents till very late years and lose their ability to cope with the > reality.:( > > They are spoiled or pampered by their parents too much. > How can we be a 'prince' or 'princess' forever?LOL > > Good night, > Pln > > On Jul 3, 8:56 pm, "NgoNam" <[email protected]> wrote: > > Hi Pablo, Oshiro, Claire and others, > > > > Thank you very much for your very indiviadual and exciting responses. > > This is a topic question on writing task II of an IELTS book that I'm > trying > > to write. > > To be honest, I'm really interested in discussing about topics related to > > education, especially methods of education. It's because when having the > > chance to study and experience something I always want to discover the > > secret of being good at that subject. Thus, teaching or influencing > others, > > for me, is not so difficult once I've understand it thoroughly. You see, > > when you're able to teach or guide others, it means that you've mastered > it. > > > > Returning to our focal topic, I had that chance to experience my > childhood > > and luckily was given nearly the total freedom to decide what I wanted to > do > > since I was a rather little child. From my own experience, both ways of > > bringing-up children have their own advantages and disavantages and it > must > > base on particular situations to decide which one is most suitable, and > > sometimes you need to combine harmoniously these two methods to creat > your > > own solution for your child. > > > > Comparing the advantages and disadvantages of these two ways of bringing > up > > children, I think the latter approach, leaving them free to learn life's > > lessons, is preferable in this modern world nowadays. Children today are > > very intelligent and aware of themselves. With good education they will > soon > > understand the right and wrong, what they should do and what they > shouldn't > > do in their daily lives. For these ones, parents don't need to give any > > strict disciplines as the major purpose of any diciplines is to threaten > > them and force them to follow you. From very begining years of our > children > > we should encourage them to act with boldness instead of fear and try to > > think and do independently as much as they can. Obviously parents must > > always look after them, follow every their step but just give them the > > feeling of being freedom in their action. > > But for ones who are always disobedient it's necessary to formulate some > > rules and strict discipline to force them to be more obedient and > > disciplined. > > > > Above is just a piece of my thoughts, many problems such as advantages > and > > disavantages of these two methods or many other factors haven't been > covered > > entirely. So keep on discussing about them, hopefully I'll get a huge > number > > of ideas about this topic so that I can complete my writing perfectly ^^ > > > > Keep on discussing please. > > Cheers, > > > > NgoNam > > > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Pablo" <[email protected]> > > To: "ESL Podcast" <[email protected]> > > Sent: Friday, July 03, 2009 10:04 AM > > Subject: [ESL Podcast] Re: Raise children with strict discipline or leave > > > > them free to learn life's lessons on their own? > > > > > Hi NgoNam, Oshiro, Claire and all, > > > > > When my daughter was in her first school years I was strict with her > > > and I realized later it didn't work like that. My daughter became > > > fearful from me. She used to forget her homework and she didn't bring > > > her notebooks to home. Later the teacher asked me 'Why your daughter > > > isn't doing her homework?'. Only in that moment I realized that I was > > > in the wrong way. I change a lot about her because of that. The only > > > problem was her scholar performance, I mean, not her grades but her > > > skills, her handwriting and her scholar duties. Although she was above > > > the average. > > > > > Now, and since ever we focus around values, about health, about > > > physical activity, the social part, etc. I mean, about the importance > > > of an integral development, and about the importance of enjoying her > > > childhood. > > > > > She is twelve. She doesn't need a boyfriend. She needs a puppy! And > > > so do I! I'm relaxed with her but I keep complaining for basic things/ > > > responsibilities like the importance of be tidy, etc.. But that isn't > > > my cup of tea either ;) LOL > > > > > I mean, rather than being strict or not, the important think is set an > > > example and spend time with them. I a parent keeps watching TV at > > > nights, why he/she would be entitled to ask too much to children? > > > > > Thank you, > > > > > Pablo > > > > > On 29 jun, 21:33, "NgoNam" <[email protected]> wrote: > > >> Hi all, > > > > >> Would you like to discuss about a quite hard and practical issue: > > >> "Some parents raise their children with strict discipline while others > > >> leave them free to learn life's lessons on their own. Whichone of > these > > >> approaches is better and why?". > > > > >> Give your opinion please, > > >> Thanks- Hide quoted text - > > > > - Show quoted text - > > > -- Thanx & Regards, Amit Kumar Thakur Asst. Manager - Technology Services Magnon Solutions Pvt. Ltd. E-22, B-1 Extn. MCIE, Mathura Road T: +91 11 4057 1394, +91 11 4057 1393 M: +91 9312302898 New Delhi - 110 044 --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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