On Thursday, November 27, 2014 8:59:42 PM UTC, Kim Jones wrote: > > > > Al Hibbs, you have once again forgotten to uncheck the "cc to sender" > button before sending which is, as everyone knows, the clearest signal that > you are Al Hibbs since no one else who inhabits this list does that because > there is no need whatsoever for this. If you are not doing it > inadvertently, then you are merely wicked, which is another form of > Intelligence. Mr Intelligence Trap needs no evidence to substantiate his > theory other than to observe the highly intelligent yet erratic and > ill-considered behaviour of people like yourself who prove regularly (and > of course, inadvertently) that the Intelligence Trap is alive and kicking. >
It's not personal Kim. I feel strongly about whatever I'm writing and haven't mastered staying on top of my emotions for the full monty. But listen...your behaviour is much worse, because you persistently express your frustration or pique or whatever that is where you go..by spelling out Al Hibbs...just like that. The fact you do it those times only is sufficient proof you know fully well you are seriously violate the expressed personal preference to maintain a synthetic layer of anonymity. You violate my personal boundary every time you do that. You have no clue what my reasons might be. You may have put me in harm's way. Perhaps I'm being stalked. Or maybe I'm hiding from an abusive estranged husband so get it right you personal space violation monger it's ALICIA. On the subject what's with the girl's name stuck on you? I thought were a woman right through to when I came back. You got a lot more slack due to that. You were disgusting in your treatment to me back then. You persistently issued fallacious assurances of neutrality, you exhibited absolutely zero self reflection even when the abject untruth of this I had to smear under your nose. You savagely attacked me out of nowhere multiply in a sequence despite clear efforts by me to de-escalate things. Then, when I actually left the list as an expression of courtesy and goodwill to you, expressly for that reason, explitly stated. You then followed up my departure by writing a post blatently impregnated with invective that everyone would recognize as targeted on me. You've no class Kim. You're envious or bitter or I don't know what. You don't self reflect. You've got really unrealistic components in play in your self imaging. You are passive aggressive. In the subtitles there are demands for respect and acknowledgements and acts of deference for acccomplishments and status you haven't earned and frankly do not deserve. You are not an authority on creativity. You aren't a fair man. You play a spiteful mean little game with me from a position of complete security and group acceptance completely unthreatened by me as the outsider largely ignored that I freely choose to be.. You've no just cause, no recourse to real and real considerations of self defence. I speak my thoughts the way that I do. I'm prone to getting myself misunderstood. I live with that and self reflect about it and can see that on some level for some reason I do bring it on myself. I see it, so I'm calm with this and accepting. I have no ill feeling, and do not harbour grudges and resent no-one. And intend nothing personal to anyone. Save in the context, strictly that context, if there is a disagreement, about value and how high value is distinguished from low value in the world. That's a theme of the disagreement that I feel with basically the entire list, it's culture, it's behaviour, it's theories, beliefs,, backscratching and letting off the hook...and the ganging up that goes side by side when that sort o thing is present. The ganging up. The bullying, like the way you bully me. The way you violate my personal space, violate my anonymity brandish it, wave it about, through it at me, boomerangs spinning around my head like clubs. I don't what this buys for you, what imagery you get for this when you look in the mirror. But to my eye the imagery is of a weak man, who is sufferering now on the inside because of failure of courage basically more than anything else. You fail still now to have the courage to be decent. You are getting older Kim yet still you have confronted yourself and have not, may not even have begun, the process a lot of people complete while still young. That we exercise first the aspiration then the practice and then begin actually delivery in anger; of being no different in our conduct with others, regardless of whether we are in a position of strength and power or it's the other way around. Feeling little, and thinking little of, the expressions of others their sentiments and judgements about us. Same whether compliments and praise or criticisms and hostility. All of it is fickle and insincere, unless it is clearly measured and distinguishes traits and measured assessments that we ourselves are able to recognize and long have done so, in ourselvces. Self reflecting and being seen to self reflect comes before that can start to happen. I don't know if you ecen do that in a serious intent. I have not seen the hallmarks for it. And do know where that puts you? Back in the Child. You are Child-like. Which is really nice if in one of the right ways and there are many. But these aren't right ways. Desist from further violations of my personal space. Don't mention again in public if I cc you. It's irrelevant. You are a builly. You don't have to read the gmail inbox. You can filter at the click of a button. Or just leave it there. I don't want to hear about this again in public. I want the violation of my personal right to anonymity to stop now. Don't step into my personal space again. Don't continue to treat me as if you afree lto act as you wish to me with impunity. I have permitted to now. Going forward it is now a possibility I will withdraw consent. In the event of that I would likely look harshly on personal space molesters -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Everything List" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. Visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/everything-list. 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