--- In [email protected], "sparaig" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In [email protected], TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > --- In [email protected], "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: <snip> > > > Right. Suppose you told your 4-year-old child that > > > one day you would die, and they would never see you > > > again? And you added that while this probably > > > wouldn't happen for many years, it very well could > > > happen tomorrow? > > > > > > That would certainly be "the truth," but telling your > > > child this "truth" would be very likely to do them > > > some serious psychological damage. > > > > Or it might just enable the child to grow up with > > a realistic approach to death and dying, as opposed > > to the fantasyland of the Western approach to dying. > > > > What you described is the way that Tibetans I knew > > in Santa Fe raised their kids. Those kids were among > > the happiest and most well-adjusted I've ever met. > > It also isn't what I was talking about anyway. Death/not-death > isn't part of the processing thing, as far as I can tell, at least > not past the age where kids learn to talk in sentences.
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