--- In [email protected], "curtisdeltablues" <curtisdeltablues@...> 
wrote:
>
> I appreciate that Steve. I think you articulated well that 
> we all have very different relationships with people here.  
> Comparing how we relate to different people differently as 
> if this shows character flaws is IMO a contrived bogus 
> judgement.  And not being interested in "calling people 
> out" is a legitimate way to enjoy the place.  
> 
> In some ways you have been played between people for speaking 
> up with your opinion.  Sometimes that has been in agreement 
> with me and sometimes you haven't agreed with me.  But I have 
> always found that if I respond to you with my POV, you at least 
> consider it, and I appreciate that about your participation here. 
> 
> I don't buy Judy's critique which makes you appear to not have 
> your own mind about issues and swayed by the breeze.  I believe 
> you are just not as judgmental a person as some here (myself 
> included) and that openness is reflected in your responses in 
> the moment.  It seems like a good quality to me and not 
> something you deserve to be shamed for.

Count me in for a big "Me, too" on this one. You have 
disagreed with me plenty on this forum (as is your right),
but I have never once felt that heavy hate vibe I feel
from some others. I think you are wise to consider each
new insight on a subject AS new, and thus an opportunity
to re-evaluate everything that went before.


> --- In [email protected], "seventhray1" <steve.sundur@> wrote:
> >
> > 
> > 
> > > > --- In [email protected], "authfriend" <jstein@> wrote:
> > > > > And Steve, predictably, goes with whatever context he's
> > > > > read most recently, especially if he senses a trend in
> > > > > the direction of that context.
> > >
> > I've been thinking about this.  (and I had to come home for the
> > dishwasher repairman)
> > 
> > Regarding this most instance with Robin, where I appear to have
> > contradictory opinions, I want to offer a little clarification.
> > 
> > For me, I found his explanations adequate, regarding his striking and
> > when, if, why it happened.  But my relationship with Robin is less
> > active than some others here, and a little less controversial.  Plus, my
> > habit, or modus operendi, is to not press people too much on issues I
> > may not agree with.  I prefer, if possible, to remain on more cordial
> > terms.  So, even though I found his explanation a little lame, I went
> > with it.
> > 
> > But I felt Curtis, who has had a more involved relationship with Robin,
> > and has been on the receiving end of many of Robin's challenges, had
> > every right to press him on these issues.  Isn't that how it works-to
> > give as good as you get.
> > 
> > It's similiar to the Ravi situation.  I worst Ravi ever got with me was
> > to call me a "pea brained heartland retard".  It didn't much bother me,
> > but I did lose any affection I had for the guy.  But over all, I felt
> > that an appropiate sanction for him would be for a time out.
> > 
> > But if I had been in, say, Curtis' position, where I was subject to
> > vicious personal attacks, where my reputation and career were at stake,
> > then I likely would have felt differently.
> > 
> > So, just wanted to pass that one.
> > 
> > P.S.  Evidently they removed phosphates from dishwasher cleaner a year
> > and half ago, which causes caking, and may prevent the soap compartment
> > from easily opening.  A recommended cleaner is "Dishwasher Magic". 
> > Also, using individual packet of dishwasher cleaner "gel caps" might
> > help alleviate the problem.  FYI.  (-:
> >
>


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