--- In [email protected], "Irmeli Mattsson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In [email protected], "Cliff" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > And somehow that gives you pleasure? Very strange... > > > > I think I will officially retire from trying to understand this > > relationship. It clearly makes you both very happy, in some > > way that I definitely do not comprehend, so I'll wish you well. > > > > > **** > Their way of relating to each other feels like a troubled marriage.
Except that at the beginning of a marriage, the two people think they love each other. That they start out this way is an important component of their later troubles which is entirely missing here. With the married couple, a betrayal of trust is involved, a trashing of the original loving feelings. Why do some of you seem unable to accept mutual dislike for what it is, and feel compelled instead to see it in the context of a romantic relationship--either originally or ultimately--simply because it's between a man and a woman? You're trying to force it into a pattern that you're already familiar with rather than seeing it on its own terms, and as a result you can't evaluate it accurately. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
