To send directly to other FFL members, Push the “reply” button, then push the little rectangular box next to the X, then the arrow in the address box to select the person you want to vent at privately if you really feel you really need to. That would likely be a more proper etiquette to show enough self-restraint to keep unkind ankle-biting off the larger public forum.
As the Yahoo Groups Guidelines Says: We depend on each member to help keep it a safe, fun, and positive place for everyone. Don't be unkind. Exploitative or degrading comments are not welcome in Groups. Also not welcome are belligerence, insults, slurs, profanity or ranting. If you wouldn't say it in public or with a group of friends, don't post it. Please help us keep Yahoo Groups an enjoyable and positive experience. If you see a Group or content that violates our rules, please let us know by contacting us https://io.help.yahoo.com/contact/index?page=contact&locale=en_US&y=PROD_GRPS. Buck wrote: Actually it is perfectly easy to post directly to other members of FFL within Yahoo-Neo. Just push the reply button, then push that faint rectangular box next to the X that shows, then hit the drop down arrow in the 'to' address line to select e-mail addresses. In fact you can send whatever you like according to your character directly to someone off-list. There is no good reason to vent unkindness publicly on FFL. In fact it is against the rules. With Love to all, Buck in the Dome ---In FairfieldLife@{{emailDomain}}, <emptybill@...> wrote: Great idea Buck. Combatants can create an alternate Yahoo email i.d. to communicate their hateful, malevolent thoughts about each other. Vaj and I knew each others actual alternate Yahoo i.d. We disagreed about many things "TM" but sometimes took it off the "mat" to clarity a point of agreement or disagreement. By being away from the preview of other people, the conversations became more about a comparison of viewpoints rather mere quarreling. That means the disputants on FFL today are flagellating each other to show off ... both to each other and to other FFL posters. Nothing else going on here but flagrant ego-ejaculations all over everyone else on the forum. Give us a break! Some people might come back once they know they can avoid having to listen to the endless smack-downs by the psucho-nuts.
