If you were good at trusting your instincts you would not have needed
Bridget. You would have missed the pain you are in now but you would
never have had the wonderful pleasure of knowing Bridget.
On Mar 19, 2010, at 1:21 PM, LauraM wrote:
You might be right about that. I know a woman who's a medium, and
when we spoke last night she said that Bridget was sent to me to
give me two lessons: one, to learn to let go; and two, to trust my
instincts more. Well, that's great, but if I'd trusted my instincts
she'd still be alive! She also said that Bridget doesn't blame me
and she is very happy on the other side, but will come back to me
three days after her death (Saturday).
--- On Fri, 3/19/10, MaryChristine <[email protected]> wrote:
From: MaryChristine <[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Bridget is dead
To: [email protected]
Date: Friday, March 19, 2010, 12:28 PM
please, please remember that we do the very best we can at the
moment, with
the information at hand. you know, and bridget knows, that you would
NEVER
have done anything willingly to hurt her. you did what you thought
was best,
in her best interest. it may be true that you choose not to listen
to an
inner voice, but it may equally be true that that was the last
lesson that
bridget was here to teach you: to believe in that voice the next time.
sometimes we only learn that sort of lesson this hardest way.
i think that we try to take the blame for things because it's easier
to
think that we could have done something differently, changed
outcomes, than
to accept that we are, in many many situations, powerless. the
healthiest
cat can die from a simple surgery, or a undetected wound, or some
genetic
glitch we had no idea existed in its DNA soup. all we can do, for
any of
those in our lifes, regardless of species, is love them to the best
of our
ability, and know that every minute is a gift.
GLOW to guide Bridget across the bridge, where she was met by many
others
who have gone before her. and as many others have said, she WILL
come to you
when the most intense pain has diminished a bit.
MC
--
Spay & Neuter Your Neighbors!
Maybe That'll Make The Difference....
MaryChristine
Special-Needs Coordinator, Purebred Cat Breed Rescue (www.purebredcats.org
)
Member, SCAT (Special-Cat Action Team)
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