Margo are you a nurse? Pets or people? I am thinking pets since you said you 
have assisted with transfusions. 


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> On May 19, 2016, at 7:16 AM, Margo <[email protected]> wrote:
> 
> 
> Marsha, I'm so sorry. 
> 
> What this "counselor" lacks is compassion. And any empathy for others. He 
> does NOT belong in this profession. He needs to go dig ditches, somewhere far 
> from actual humans.
> 
> Common sense doesn't seem to have much to do with this. You are struggling 
> with grief, anxiety and hopelessness. Basically he told you to pic yourself 
> up, dust yourself off and start all over again. I'm surprised he didn't sing 
> it :(
> 
> Can you switch "counselors"? What kind of qualifications does this 
> ...man...hold?
> 
> I have more, but want you to know that you're not alone...there any many 
> "common sense"less people in the world, and they make it a much better 
> place...
> 
> Back after rounds
> 
> Margo
> 
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Marsha <[email protected]>
>> Sent: May 18, 2016 8:55 PM
>> To: [email protected]
>> Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Winstrol
>> 
>> I went to a counselor last month to help me cope with all that is on my 
>> plate.  During the 2nd session (1st one was the intake), he informed me 
>> that I lacked common sense (regarding money and animals).  Then he said 
>> he loves animals too, and everybody lacks common sense in some way - 
>> some drink too much, some eat too much, etc.  When I told him that I 
>> wasn't looking for any more cats to take in, he said, "Good for you!"  
>> All my brain processed was the word "good", which made his statement 
>> come across as highly judgemental.  I was more anxious and feeling more 
>> hopeless after I left.  Two things I was seeking help for.  I don't need 
>> that kind of help.  I am pretty sure that lacking common sense is not a 
>> diagnosis in any way.  And even if it was, how would you treat it?  Plus 
>> I was very depressed and crying because the last time I saw this 
>> counselor was the day before Brock died, and I still have Noelle to care 
>> for (sinus cancer).  I would like to tell him that HE lacked common 
>> sense in saying such things to someone in the throes of depression.
>> 
>> Marsha
>> 
>> 
>>> On 5/18/2016 6:30 PM, Amani Oakley wrote:
>>> Rachel
>>> 
>>> I am just like you. I cry at commercials. Did you ever see the one where 
>>> they put a lamp on the curb to be picked up for garbage? Who ever thought 
>>> one could cry over the fate of an unloved and abandoned lamp for goodness 
>>> sake??
>>> 
>>> My mom used to ask me why I was so insane to keep on taking these cats who 
>>> would just go on to break my heart. I would take it so hard. But I told her 
>>> that if the people who love cats so much aren't going to be the ones who 
>>> save them and sacrifice for them, it sure as hell wasn't going to be the 
>>> people who don't care about them. It will break your heart Rachel. There is 
>>> no avoiding it or minimizing it, but you know you have done a truly 
>>> wonderful wonderful thing and you go on to find another unbelievably 
>>> deserving little sweetheart who also should know someone's love and 
>>> devotion, while on this earth. Frankly, while it kills me to lose my 
>>> babies, there is nothing at all more profoundly and intensely painful to me 
>>> than a poor being who never saw any love or kindness.
>>> 
>>> We are all doing our part, in this group, to help these furry angels. This 
>>> gives me a sense of great purpose and hope.
>>> 
>>> Amani
>> 
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