He lacked compasion and common sense. One doe not criticise when someone is looking for support, and compassion. Maybe later on when the pain has subsided some, but not at this time.
---- Amani Oakley <[email protected]> wrote: > What a complete and utter idiot. > > -----Original Message----- > From: Felvtalk [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of > Marsha > Sent: May-18-16 8:55 PM > To: [email protected] > Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Winstrol > > I went to a counselor last month to help me cope with all that is on my > plate. During the 2nd session (1st one was the intake), he informed me that > I lacked common sense (regarding money and animals). Then he said he loves > animals too, and everybody lacks common sense in some way - some drink too > much, some eat too much, etc. When I told him that I wasn't looking for any > more cats to take in, he said, "Good for you!" > All my brain processed was the word "good", which made his statement come > across as highly judgemental. I was more anxious and feeling more hopeless > after I left. Two things I was seeking help for. I don't need that kind of > help. I am pretty sure that lacking common sense is not a diagnosis in any > way. And even if it was, how would you treat it? Plus I was very depressed > and crying because the last time I saw this counselor was the day before > Brock died, and I still have Noelle to care for (sinus cancer). I would like > to tell him that HE lacked common sense in saying such things to someone in > the throes of depression. > > Marsha > > > On 5/18/2016 6:30 PM, Amani Oakley wrote: > > Rachel > > > > I am just like you. I cry at commercials. Did you ever see the one where > > they put a lamp on the curb to be picked up for garbage? Who ever thought > > one could cry over the fate of an unloved and abandoned lamp for goodness > > sake?? > > > > My mom used to ask me why I was so insane to keep on taking these cats who > > would just go on to break my heart. I would take it so hard. But I told her > > that if the people who love cats so much aren't going to be the ones who > > save them and sacrifice for them, it sure as hell wasn't going to be the > > people who don't care about them. It will break your heart Rachel. There is > > no avoiding it or minimizing it, but you know you have done a truly > > wonderful wonderful thing and you go on to find another unbelievably > > deserving little sweetheart who also should know someone's love and > > devotion, while on this earth. Frankly, while it kills me to lose my > > babies, there is nothing at all more profoundly and intensely painful to me > > than a poor being who never saw any love or kindness. > > > > We are all doing our part, in this group, to help these furry angels. This > > gives me a sense of great purpose and hope. > > > > Amani > > > _______________________________________________ > Felvtalk mailing list > [email protected] > http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org > > _______________________________________________ > Felvtalk mailing list > [email protected] > http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org _______________________________________________ Felvtalk mailing list [email protected] http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
