Sandy, I don't plan on seeing him again, except maybe when I am up to
it, to tell him how I felt. I did write a review in HealthGrades on
him. The one other person gave him 5 stars. I keep a journal for each
of my cats (I use Microsoft OneNote), writing down cute things they did,
or interactions with other cats. And when I am caring for a cat that is
ill, the journaling is daily...what they ate, when they ate, how they
seem to be feeling, physical activity, etc. Noelle has her final
appointment late this afternoon, near the end of the vet's day so we can
have an unhurried time, not squeezed between. She is laying on the bed
behind me right now.
I named my Noelle because I got her in December. She was eating food at
the colony I cared for. A little friendlier than normal feral, but I
don't think she'd ever lived indoors before, and when she was spayed,
the vet noted she had previously been pregnant. Possibly she had been a
barn cat, since I lived at the edge of town adjacent to two farms. No
one claimed her. She is probably related to several of my other cats,
including FeLV+ Milkdud, who passed away 2 years ago around this time.
Noelle tested negative for FeLV twice. She was the first of the colony
that I took in. She is a calico, large patches of gray and orange tabby
over white.
Marsha
On 5/19/2016 10:03 AM, swacht wrote:
Marsha, I'm so sorry for your loss. I really don't know if I'd
continue with this "counselor". Would you be comfortable with keeping
a daily journal - write about your grief - write about Noelle ( I have
a cat named Noelle) - write about 1 thing that gives you a good feeling.
For me, I found writing helped with my losses. Please give it a try.
Sandy W
-----Original Message----- From: Rachel Dagner
Sent: Thursday, May 19, 2016 7:45 AM
To: Margo ; [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Winstrol
Margo are you a nurse? Pets or people? I am thinking pets since you
said you have assisted with transfusions.
Sent from my iPhone
On May 19, 2016, at 7:16 AM, Margo <[email protected]>
wrote:
Marsha, I'm so sorry.
What this "counselor" lacks is compassion. And any empathy for
others. He does NOT belong in this profession. He needs to go dig
ditches, somewhere far from actual humans.
Common sense doesn't seem to have much to do with this. You are
struggling with grief, anxiety and hopelessness. Basically he told
you to pic yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again.
I'm surprised he didn't sing it :(
Can you switch "counselors"? What kind of qualifications does this
...man...hold?
I have more, but want you to know that you're not alone...there any
many "common sense"less people in the world, and they make it a much
better place...
Back after rounds
Margo
-----Original Message-----
From: Marsha <[email protected]>
Sent: May 18, 2016 8:55 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Winstrol
I went to a counselor last month to help me cope with all that is on my
plate. During the 2nd session (1st one was the intake), he informed me
that I lacked common sense (regarding money and animals). Then he said
he loves animals too, and everybody lacks common sense in some way -
some drink too much, some eat too much, etc. When I told him that I
wasn't looking for any more cats to take in, he said, "Good for you!"
All my brain processed was the word "good", which made his statement
come across as highly judgemental. I was more anxious and feeling more
hopeless after I left. Two things I was seeking help for. I don't
need
that kind of help. I am pretty sure that lacking common sense is not a
diagnosis in any way. And even if it was, how would you treat it?
Plus
I was very depressed and crying because the last time I saw this
counselor was the day before Brock died, and I still have Noelle to
care
for (sinus cancer). I would like to tell him that HE lacked common
sense in saying such things to someone in the throes of depression.
Marsha
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