That person didn't put you in a difficult position, you put yourself in it. What's funny is, you are relying on others to do your work. You should never stop just because one person said they will help. Go find the answer or solution yourself. I think you have received so much help with so much patience, and for you to come back like that? THAT'S abusive. The guy willing to help you is not on your payroll. You need to realize that this is no ones issue but yours and yours alone. You have the attitude you have right now, and it is going to be hard to find more help on this list.
Nathan Mynarcik Interactive Web Developer [email protected] 254.749.2525 www.mynarcik.com -----Original Message----- From: beno - <[email protected]> Date: Mon, 7 Dec 2009 13:48:54 To: Flash Coders List<[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Flashcoders] Back On Course, Still Problems On Mon, Dec 7, 2009 at 1:00 PM, Mendelsohn, Michael < [email protected]> wrote: > > and above all, play nice. > > Well said, Jason! Disagree. If someone tells you, "Hey, I'm going to help you. Just give me a couple of days and I'll take a personal look at your code and walk you through it." and you believe him and he strings you along and wastes 10 of your precious days, you mean to tell me that's all good? You mean to tell me you'd be grateful to him doing that? I don't think so... That's abusive, period. If you're not going to fulfill, then keep your mouth shut. Don't offer. This person put me an additional 10 days behind schedule with promises he didn't fulfill. That is not good. Period. > Let me just say that this list is the most valuable asset in my Flash work > by far, and I truly appreciate every response I get from it. Jason happens > to be more than generous in the amount of questions he responds to and I > think many others will attest to that. Only after going through the help, > tinkering, and searching this forum and others lead nowhere, then I post. > When I post, it's because I'm totally stumped. Well, gee, so do I!!! I'm just brand new, that's all. > And I always appreciate responses! Never rely on this list to finish the > job for you. If you hit a dead end, go for Plan B. > And that's exactly what I'm doing. But I figured I'd give this guy enough time to prove if he was honest. He wasn't. What a pity. Thank you all for your code suggestions. I'm working on them now and will respond later. beno _______________________________________________ Flashcoders mailing list [email protected] http://chattyfig.figleaf.com/mailman/listinfo/flashcoders _______________________________________________ Flashcoders mailing list [email protected] http://chattyfig.figleaf.com/mailman/listinfo/flashcoders
