"This is your last free article." [baaaaahhhhhhhh] Now what am I gonna read 
this weekend!?!? Damn you! [stomp][stomp][stomp]

Of course, I disagree completely with the point being made, there. The 
freak-out improves relationships and rationality, smooths over difficulties in 
the real world, and has all sorts of narrative-breaking, cathartic benefits. In 
the same way that convictions to ideologies foster conservatism and hamper 
progress, the suppression of one's freak-outs amounts to rejecting a large 
array of measures and indicators one might ordinarily use to understand the 
world. The problem isn't the freak-out. The problem is a lack of tolerance 
*for* freak-outs. It's the repressed Victorians running around complaining 
about the lack of manners and decorum around them.

Please. Don't repress your freak-outs. We're tough. We can withstand your 
freak-out and use it to better plan for the future. The last thing we need is 
to turn into a bunch of dead-affect emotionless, freak-out-free psychopaths. 
Where would stand-up comedy be without freak-outs? Where would we get our 
qualia-laden *rants* from? What even is laughing if *not* a kind of freak-out?

I haven't had the giggles in decades. But for some reason, a group of us were 
eating lunch a few weeks ago. Someone told a joke. Another someone kept 
laughing. I mean, even after the topic had changed and everyone'd moved on. 
This dude kept laughing. I tried to take a sip of beer and I ended up snorting 
it ... just because that other dude kept laughing. I'm allergic to barley. So 
when I snort beer it seriously messes me up for about an hour or 2. Fvcking 
laughing. Stupid freak-out. I should have suppressed it.

On 4/28/22 12:53, Marcus Daniels wrote:
“Emotional flooding might have helped your Pleistocene ancestors survive, but 
it is maladapted to most modern interactions.”

https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2022/04/how-to-manage-emotions-and-reactions/629692/
 
<https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2022/04/how-to-manage-emotions-and-reactions/629692/>


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