Pieter Steenekamp wrote:
Isn't bullying and being a good negotiator two different things? One could be a bully and also a skilled negotiator, right?
I'm not sure effective bullies bother to be particular effective at other negotiation strategies, but there is no logical contradiction...  but is "bullying" anything more than "negotiation by other means"?   Clauswitz rolls in his grave.
I'm not an expert on Trump, so some of my assumptions may be off. For example, I assume Trump had a successful run as a property developer in New York. To achieve that, it seems reasonable that he would need to be effective at, among other things, negotiating. Whether he achieved this by being a bully or not, I can’t say.
Lots of evidence that variations on bullying (from racial redlining to disputing every contract payment to inflating values for loans and lowballing them for taxation) are his only superpower in "development".

Being a "nice guy" isn't necessarily a requirement for becoming a successful world leader. Success as a world leader requires a long list of skills, and I’m not arguing that Trump would perform better than Harris—I genuinely don’t know. My point is simply that having a background in managing complex property development projects likely involves successful negotiations and skill in playing the game of chicken, both of which might be valuable.

What a shame we are back to "brinksmanship" at the top of our list (again?).    Putin (plays?) crazy, Kim Jong Un plays crazy, Trump plays crazy.

Trump may be an effective "leader" by these terms, but where will he "lead" the country/world?  He lead quite a few businesses into bankruptcy and his most successful gig was Reality TV bully which he also bailed on as it was failing... ratings were plenty down before he did a tricky handoff to Schwartzenegger for the final fall.

I agree with/defer to DaveW's idea that many people (order 49.9999% of our voters?) find some kind of identification within his projected image, his promises, his affect.   It's a pretty good tricky trick... like good ole "tricky Dick" in another era. Or PT Barnum.   You *don't* need to fool *all* the people *all* of the time?

Winter is coming? (first freeze here last night)



While being a bully could be a negative, it might belong on a different line of that checklist.

On Thu, 31 Oct 2024 at 23:08, steve smith <[email protected]> wrote:


     Jochen Fromm sed:
No, he is not a skilled negotiator at all.

    Some people mistake (conflate?) bullying for "negotiating".

     Musk is also a bully and I doubt anyone who has done business or
    tried to maintain personal relationships with him (e.g.  his
    children and their mothers, etc) will not disagree.  Trump's whole
    cohort/contingent are bullies of various stripes (Stone and Bannon
    and Miller, Graham, Jordan, MTG) as well.  Effective bullies know
    how to defer to bigger bullies, to deal efficiently with anyone
    willing/able to stand up to them.  They might do their smackdown
    alone if their victim is weak, but easily gang up with others to
    smack down stronger ones.  Putin is clearly a bully's bully and
    Trumps other hero/buddies come in on the same ticket.   I don't
    understand Xi or Modhi, since Trump doesn't gush over them like he
    does Putin and Orban and Kim Jong Un.

    The (informal) expansion of BRICS to include a bit of the Middle
    East may suggest more global stability that comes with dynamic
    balances (1 superpower/coalition is either 1 too many or several
    too few?).

    There is the argument "yes, he's a bully/@$$H*L3 but he's OUR
    bully/A********) but that is perhaps the lamest argument ever? 
    I've made that mistake myself before and I am totally over it.

    Re: the "great removal"... while the Nazi anti-Semite
    movement/action/horror is not an entirely wrong comparison, but we
    here have several major poorly thought-out but harsh purges in the
    recent history of the US.   The Japanese-American Internment
    (there was a camp in Santa Fe where Solano Center is now) in the
    40s, and the depression era of "Mexican Repatriation" which was
    somewhat indiscriminate about whether those "repatriated" were US
    Citizens (many were), or had family/roots in Mexico (many did not)
    or even spoke Spanish (many did not).   I believe most of this was
    in southern CA, as an imagined way to reduce the stress on the job
    market and on goods, but like the Japanese Internment it was at
    root driven by racism, xenophobia and greed.   Many merchant class
    families from both groups had their businesses taken over or
    bought out for pennies on the dollar by their former
    friends/neighbors quite eagerly.  All you had to do was have the
    wrong surname and/or complexion and not enough resources to resist.

    Trump's "one day, one hour of extreme violence" and "I'll only be
    a dictator on day one" smack way too much of Krystalnacht for my
    taste...

    This is a myth, isn't it? He has no patience for long and
    complicated negotiations. He basically acts like a bully who
    demands loyalty, as James Comey reported. He is only good at
    lying and cheating and hiding that he cheated (which is the
    reason why he was convicted). Even the MAGA motto is a lie:
    instead of making America great he will ruin it. Like Captain
    Ahab in Moby Dick he will ruin everything on his quest for
    personal revenge.

    For example if he expels the Mexican immigrants, nobody will
    clean the houses of the superrich anymore. Or wash the dishes in
    hotels and restaurants. This dirty work is typically done by
    immigrants and people of color, all over the world.

    -J.


    -------- Original message --------
    From: Pieter Steenekamp <[email protected]>
    <mailto:[email protected]>
    Date: 10/31/24 3:39 PM (GMT+01:00)
    To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group
    <[email protected]> <mailto:[email protected]>
    Subject: Re: [FRIAM] What if Trump Wins?

    The Case for Trump

    I'm not suggesting that Trump is a model leader; he has many
    moral shortcomings. And yes, if we view the U.S. President as the
    de facto leader of the West, it's fair to ask: Can’t we do
    better? I also won’t debate whether someone like Harris might
    make a better president. My point is this: If Trump is elected,
    might there be areas where his unique style could actually make
    him an effective leader?

    One thing Trump can do is negotiate. As a potential leader of the
    West, there are benefits he could bring in negotiating with
    adversaries, including BRICS countries. Let me explain using an
    analogy: the character James Dean played in Rebel Without a
    Cause. In a game of chicken, Dean's character pretended to be
    drunk, making his opponent believe he was reckless—eventually
    causing them to back down.

    Trump has a history of employing similar tactics. For instance,
    when building in New York, he once proposed a design that
    violated height limits. When this was denied, he proposed a much
    uglier building that followed the code. Ultimately, he got
    approval to build his original design, with the height exemption
    he wanted. Whether or not he would have gone through with his
    threat is unclear, but he got what he wanted by throwing a
    calculated tantrum.

    In the same way, Trump's current claims about what he would do
    internationally could simply be part of his proven negotiation
    tactics. World leaders see him as “reckless” in the same way
    James Dean’s opponents did, making them reconsider their own moves.

    Ultimately, Trump may be an unconventional choice, but he is a
    skilled negotiator—one who could, in his own way, secure some
    advantageous outcomes for the West.

    On Thu, 31 Oct 2024 at 13:07, Santafe <[email protected]> wrote:

        The newspapers, and any number of writers, do a good job
        spelling all this out.

        I have this frustrated feeling that doing this misses the
        point that is driving the dynamic.

        One of the good things that Paxton emphasizes about what
        drives fascist movements from the ground up is the determined
        rejection of thought in favor of feeling.  Hannah Arendt goes
        on at length to get the same thing across.

        I envision it (with some discomfort about misfits of the
        metaphor) as being like a social counterpart to berserking,
        or (even less apt) elephants going into musth.  It’s not even
        “rage” per se, but something about as destructive, only chosen.

        I see the various repubs that make communities with the dems,
        and speak as if they hope this will “accomplish” some
        “change”.  For the Bannon-followers, I feel like I know
        exactly what this looks like.  It is the various
        subcategories of hated ones self-identifying, and sewing on
        their sleeves a marker of “establishment characters”.  Bannon
        preaches to the mob:  “You see; they’re scared!  We have them
        on the run.  If you’ll just push a little harder we can
        corner them, and we’ll give them the beating of their lives. 
        Imagine how powerful you will feel.  They’ll want you to
        stop, and they won’t be faking it, but they won’t be able to
        make you stop.  Won’t that be the best feeling you ever had? 
        You’ll be able to feel, finally, that you actually exist.” 
        (Bannon doesn’t put in the final line; I put that in.)


        I guess I don’t want to argue against the things people are
        trying to do (Michael Luttig, various Cheneys, and whoever). 
        The voting block that can cause the calamity is certainly a
        coalition of non-identical groups.  If we think there are
        categories of Spontaneous Racists and Stimulated Racists (to
        borrow a term from spectroscopy), the part of the voting bloc
        that is made up of the spontaneous ones may not be all that
        large; maybe 20%?  Not as large as the evangelicals (35–40%?,
        with some overlap).  There presumably are some genuinely
        out-to-lunch types, and maybe one can imagine that talking
        has some place with them, which could be enough to move the
        margin of this winner-take-all event we are stuck with.  And
        then the ones that can think enough to be strategically
        greedy or hoarding, but not circumspect enough to have every
        cared or understood how the society they suck from actually
        functions.  _Maybe_ talking could have some effect with them.


        I have thought, too, since some NYT article by a guy from
        Bucks county PA going home, and thinking that the trump
        voters actively wanted “the trump vibe; the meanness,
        bullying and name-calling, etc.” that this is an expression
        of a certain component of nihilism.

        Whoever wrote the screenplay for Apocalypse Now was very
        good.  Kurtz’s line in one of the soliloquays:

        “Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be
        completely free?  Free from the judgments of others; even of
        yourself?”

        There is a core of nihilism in that freedom.  What would it
        feel like to go punch somebody for no particular reason,
        except that I felt like it?  Burn whatever some people mean
        by “the bonds of human affection” that “include us in
        humanity”.  Yes, I sort of understand (and this probably is
        important) that whoever I hit will now know he has to fear
        me, and he may even dislike or hate me, and it may be
        irreversible.  But if he can’t do anything to me, why do I
        care?  In fact, if he wants to and still can’t, even better:
        that will give me that experience of power that I imagine
        must be so nice to feel, but that if it is, I certainly don’t
        feel now.

        It’s not as simple a category as all that, because they are
        willing to do this only if they believe they are members in
        the mob.  Whether that’s community or just a release from the
        requirements of either responsibility or courage I can’t say.


        But I do think that, in the U.S., a crucial conversion that
        Arendt articulates, from a mere mass into a mob, has now been
        achieved, and the mob is awake and self-aware as a mob.  It
        took a sociopath to go charging out across the minefield that
        normal people are too chicken to venture into, to show how
        far out the actual shooting-boundary is, beyond where they
        had drawn back before.  But now that the boundary has been
        identified, that’s public information, and the others don’t
        need to be sociopaths to use it.  It changes the problem,
        because there are a lot more of them than of the true sociopaths.


        I agree, we would like to first get through the next week
        without an acute disaster.  But the system organization has
        passed through a re-arrangement by now.  I would like to know
        what a program looks like to reverse that, without having to
        go through the whole Hodgkin-Huxley circuit of the society’s
        destroying itself before there is enough exhaustion to try
        for a reset.  Since, under the conditions that are likely by
        that time, it’s not clear what kind of “reset” might even be
        available.

        Eric





        > On Oct 31, 2024, at 4:59 AM, Russ Abbott
        <[email protected]> wrote:
        >
        > To help prevent such a disaster, let's do our best to help
        people imagine what the world would look like if Trump wins.
        >
        > For example, Trump has said that one of his priorities
        would be to throw off the occupying army of invading
        immigrants and criminals. Ask people to think about how this
        occupying force is currently ruining people's lives. I
        suspect that very few people have any experience of such a
        noxious invading force. Most people find their lives
        relatively peaceful. But if Trump begins to implement his
        plan to throw off this occupying force, the streets would be
        full of armed deportation agents chasing down the evil
        occupying forces. Gunfights would erupt between the
        deportation agents and immigrants running for their lives.
        Many of us would be caught in the crossfire--or holed up at
        home trying to avoid the bullets. Ask people to imagine such
        a world and to compare it to the relatively peaceful world we
        now occupy. Ask them if that is really what we want and if
        that is what we will be voting for next Tuesday.
        >
        > -- Russ Abbott
        > Professor Emeritus, Computer Science
        > California State University, Los Angeles
        >
        >
        > On Wed, Oct 30, 2024 at 11:48 PM Jochen Fromm
        <[email protected]> wrote:
        > Here in Europe most people are indeed worried that the
        candidate who is a convicted felon and wears orange makeup
        will become president again. Have his fans all forgotten he
        mainly played golf, praised dictators and created tax cuts
        for the superrich? But there is also a bit of hope that a
        woman will stop him this time.
        >
        > A hundred years ago there was already a group in America
        that hated Blacks and immigrants. As Timothy Egan writes in
        his book "A Fever in the Heartland: The Ku Klux Klan's Plot
        to Take Over America, and the Woman Who Stopped Them" one of
        the Ku Klux Klan leaders was a charismatic charlatan named
        D.C. Stephenson. He was eventually brought down by a woman,
        Madge Oberholtzer, who would reveal his cruelties, and whose
        testimony stopped the Klan. When Europe fell into darkness,
        America was able to stop the con man. I hope it can do it again.
        >
        
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/558306/a-fever-in-the-heartland-by-timothy-egan/
        >
        > -J.
        >
        >
        > -------- Original message --------
        > From: Nicholas Thompson <[email protected]>
        > Date: 10/30/24 10:54 PM (GMT+01:00)
        > To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group
        <[email protected]>
        > Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Evolutionary transitions between
        egalitarian and despotic societies
        >
        > Hi, Jochen,
        >
        > Not sarcastic.   It was to show the exploratory nature of
        such models.   I do believe that the most mysterious feature
        of charisma is the behavior of the charasmees.  However this
        election turns out, almost half the country is about to
        willingly offer up it's political autonomy to a potential
        dictator.  Whatever my faults, I try, try, TRY not to do
        sarcasm.  I do wonder if we could build models that explore
        under what circumstances it is better for everybody to do
        SOMETHING  then to take the time to pool information and do
        the right thing.
        >
        > In general evolutionary history has no actual power to
        constrain our present behavior.   Our behavior is
        constrainted by present events and present behavioral
        repertoire.
        >
        > Nick
        >
        > On Wed, Oct 30, 2024 at 2:37 PM Jochen Fromm
        <[email protected]> wrote:
        > In her book "The Social Instinct" Nichola Raihani mentions
        in chapter 17 the article "An evolutionary model explaining
        the Neolithic transition from egalitarianism to leadership
        and despotism" from Simon T. Powers as a model how despotic
        regimes and dominance hierarchies have evolved in early human
        societies.
        >
        https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/abs/10.1098/rspb.2014.1349
        >
        > It reminds me of our recent discussion triggered by Nick's
        (sarcastic?) proposal to explain parts of the MAGA movement
        in terms of evolutionary psychology. Simon T. Powers is an
        interdisciplinary researcher working at the University of
        Sterling
        > https://www.stir.ac.uk/people/2013555
        >
        > A more recent article from him about "Modelling transitions
        between egalitarian, dynamic leader and absolutist power
        structures" can be found here
        > https://www.stir.ac.uk/research/hub/publication/2041639
        >
        > -J.
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