Ray, You are right to chastise me fo my response to Harry and I apologize to Harry.
One of my many flaws is that I tend to think in idealistic terms to the point where it sometimes occludes my ability to see the trees in the forest. I am so concerned to have us get a sense of direction as to where we want to go that I think in terms of already being there and that makes it difficult if not impossible to think about how to get there. Selma ----- Original Message ----- From: "Ray Evans Harrell" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Selma Singer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Harry Pollard" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Monday, September 08, 2003 10:08 AM Subject: Re: Fw: [Futurework] The world of work > Selma, > > Doesn't Harry have the right to his own story as well? Isn't it important > that we see that there is Sparta, Athens and Jerusalem? And that all > three societies gain something the other does not but that all are > successful at attaining a balance where civic responsibility happens? > > What I would ask would be more along the lines of his complaint about the > rest of the school where the students are obviously "seperating and > individuating" in their rebellion against authority. That is an important > part of every student's evolution and the West always has provided a stable > authority for the students to "bang their heads against" as they are finding > themselves. > > We found a similar response as Harry in the Summerhill Schools but we also > found that there was an order to knowledge that could be subverted by these > various school cultures. You might be doing harm by expecting or > requiring responsibility at the wrong time even if you set up a situation in > which the students discovered responsibility to be the only efficient way to > keep from killing each other. I have found that the current generation > where children teach each other parallels the sixties drug generation where > they were together in the drug experience. In both cases they have trouble > with the type of discipline experience that authority gives both direction > and strength to when the student would lose their way in insecurity. I > think the current low concentration tolerance level for CEOs ("If it can't > be said in a page then it isn't worth my time") has to do with the > independance they experienced for leadership but the lack of discipline that > would give them the ability to deal with the "long haul." The > Bush-Cheney-Rumsfeld issue of it being a good war but having no discipline > for the peace beyond brute force. We have to teach children to have > success with rhythm and the creative use of long timelines. Solving the > problem with authority and its resolution so that we can give each other the > authority to have our own expertise without being threatened by it is a very > important step in the development of the individual. > > I think that Harry is a good teacher. I never questioned that. I do > argue with his surety as to culture and I argue with the limitations of his > axioms. I don't think they are complete enough to answer the human > condition. I would also argue that we all fit into that same limitation > as well. But are we personally big enough to break the envelope of our > assumptions and seek real answers? > > Ray > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Selma Singer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Harry Pollard" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Sent: Monday, September 08, 2003 9:40 AM > Subject: Re: Fw: [Futurework] The world of work > > > > Harry, > > > > I'm afraid you've missed the point of the embroidery story. For me, it > > points to the possibility of people working for the sake of working in the > > context of a spiritual milieu that generates connection of people to each > > other and to a larger whole. And, as Lee points out so eloquently, it can > > happen as easily when one is alone and when one is with others. > > > > I would love it if we, here on this list, would exchange stories of > > experiences we have had that approach what Lee is talking about. I believe > > that we can create a society in which children grow up learning that work > > can have this quality. Of course I must always add the caveat that all of > > the institutions must be in balance in order for this to be the prevailing > > mode but that doesn't mean that we cannot start to work toward things like > > this. > > > > I have this experienceoften when I am writing. I haven't done much writing > > lately but it is an exhilarating experience that feels as though I'm > > connected to something enormous; Lee expressed it for me in a way I > cannot. > > There is a sense of touching and being touched by something-the words that > > come to mind seem to me to beg for misunderstanding but they are the words > > that describe it for me- being touched by something cosmic and there is an > > overwhelming feeling of wholeness. > > > > I have had this experience when I've been washing dishes; it is a sense of > > serenity and again, connection; when I am making lunch for my family, with > > or without the help of my grandchildren. I have had this feeling while > > ironing clothes. And I have had this feeling while standing in front of a > > class and teaching with all of us being in the same place of connection. > > > > I have great difficulty finding the words; Lee does it so very well. I > would > > so love to hear from list members who, I'm sure, could describe it in the > > various forms it takes for them. Then we might start to think about how, > in > > the classroom, in the workplace, we might create an environment that > > 'allows' for this? 'encourages' this? > > > > I now have a strong urge to reread *Flow The Psychology of Optimal > > Experience * by Mihaly Csikszentimihalyi (chick sent me high ee). > > > > I do remember that one of the qualities of this experience that he > explores > > is that there is a loss of 'self-consciousness' which is totally different > > from a loss of the sense of self-in fact, it enhances the sense of self > but > > self in the context of the larger whole. > > > > Help! There is so much to this and it is so important. > > > > Selma > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > If we can understand that that is an experience that can be common and > > pervasive, we can work toward creating an environment which has that > > potential. > > Selma > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Harry Pollard" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > To: "Selma Singer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Sent: Monday, September 08, 2003 2:32 AM > > Subject: Re: Fw: [Futurework] The world of work > > > > > > > Selma, > > > > > > Your story of the Tikopia reminded me of the free market, where people > run > > > their own affairs rather than have the visible hand of the collective > > > pushing them in the "right" direction. > > > > > > As you may recall, my InterStudent High School Program is run like a > > > competitive free market. Cheating pervades the high schools. > Practically > > > everyone cheats because it's the thing one does. So, what to do in this > > > highly competitive Program which places responsibility on the individual > > > student, and in which students find that the way to handle the > competition > > > is to cooperate within their Groups? > > > > > > InterStudent encourages the students to lie, cheat and steal. We even > give > > > higher grades for creative cheating. > > > > > > The result? InterStudent classrooms are certainly the only places in the > > > School where there is no cheating. If you were to cheat me, Selma, > no-one > > > would condemn you. Rather, they would laugh at me for allowing myself to > > be > > > cheated. The result is a high rate of personal responsibility - so much > so > > > that trying to cheat becomes a waste of time. > > > > > > So, the kids stop it. Cheating is so widespread in High Schools that we > > had > > > to take drastic action. > > > > > > Tikopia is a different matter. When people have grown up there is no > need > > > to monitor them. They will cooperate and be friendly because it makes > > > sense. They don't need a Big Brother to keep them in line. > > > > > > The embroidery story was delightful! > > > > > > Harry > > > -------------------------------------------------------- > > > > > > Selma wrote: > > > > > > >I sent this excerpt from the Dorothy Lee book "Freedom and Culture" > last > > > >February in response to a discussion about 'who should clean the > toilets' > > > >which discussion seems to be occurring again. > > > > > > > > > Lee has a chapter entitled 'The Joy of Work as Participation'. She > > writes > > > >of > > > > > having made a discovery while she was working on a Christmas present > > for > > > >one > > > > > of her children on Christmas Eve when it was very late, she was > > exhausted > > > > > and "I was working against time, wishing I were in bed." > > > > > > > > > > She also speaks of the conflicts she was experiencing at this time, > > trying > > > > > to balance her work as an anthropologist with her responsibilities > to > > her > > > > > two children, her husband and her home. She felt guilty about > > neglecting > > > >her > > > > > professional work and needed to justify whatever she did for the > > family; > > > > > making a blanket for the doll crib of her 3-year-old daughter seemed > > > > > justifiable because she couldn't afford to buy it. > > > > > > > > > > "As I sewed this Christmas Eve, I was suddenly astonished to > discover > > that > > > >I > > > > > had started to add an entirely unpremeditated and unnecessary edging > > of > > > > > embroidery, and, simultaneously, I was aware of a deep enjoyment in > > what I > > > > > was doing. It was a feeling that had nothing to do with the pleasure > > the > > > > > work would give to my daughter on the morrow; it had nothing to do > > with a > > > > > sense of achievement, or of virtue in duty accomplished. And I knew > > that I > > > > > had never liked to embroider. There was no justification for my > work; > > yet > > > >it > > > > > was the source of such a deep satisfaction, that the late hour and > my > > > > > fatigue had ceased to exist for me. > > > > > > > > > > At this moment of discovery, I knew that I was experiencing what it > > meant > > > >to > > > > > be a social being, not merely Dorothy Lee, an individual; I knew > that > > I > > > >had > > > > > truly become a mother, a wife, a neighbor, a teacher. I realized > that > > > >some > > > > > boundary had disappeared, so that I was working in a social medium; > > that I > > > > > was not working for the future pleasure of a distant daughter, but > > rather > > > > > within a relationship unaffected by temporality or physical absence. > > What > > > > > gave meaning to my work was the medium in which I was working-the > > medium > > > >of > > > > > love, in a broad sense. So far, my rationalization and justification > > of my > > > > > work had obscured this meaning, had cut me off from my own social > > context. > > > > > It suddently became clear to me that it did not matter whether I was > > > > > scrubbing the kitchen floor or darning stockings or zipping up > > snowsuits; > > > > > these all had meaning, not in themselves, but in terms of the > > situation of > > > > > which they were a part. They contained social value because they > > > >implemented > > > > > the value of the social situation. > > > > > > > > > > This was a tremendous discovery for me, illuminating in a flash my > > > > > experience and my thinking. My mind went immediately to the Tikopia, > > about > > > > > whom I had been reading, and I said to myself, 'This is the way the > > > >Tikopia > > > > > work.' I had been puzzled about the motivating forces in the life of > > the > > > > > Tikopia. These were people who were without organized leadership in > > work, > > > > > yet who carried out large undertakings. And without any authority > to > > > >impose > > > > > legislation and mete out punishment, the business of the village was > > > >carried > > > > > out and law and order were maintained. Raymond Firth, the > > ethnographer, > > > > > answering the unspoken quesitons of western readers, spoke of > > obligations, > > > > > duty, fear of adverse opinion, as motivations. I did not like his > > choice > > > >of > > > > > words, because he spoke of the obligation to perform unpleasant > tasks, > > for > > > > > example, and yet the situations he described brimmed with joy. Now I > > saw > > > > > that the Tikopia did not need external incentives. > > > > > > > > > > This was all very well, but when I came to examine my discovery, I > > could > > > >not > > > > > explain it in any rational or acceptable way. My society did not > > structure > > > > > working situations as occasions which contained their own > > satisfaction; > > > >and > > > > > it assumed the existence of aggregates or collections of > > indiividuals, > > > >not > > > > > of a social continuum. I had learned to believe in the existence of > a > > > > > distinct self, relating itself externally to work as a means to an > > end, > > > >with > > > > > external incentives and external rewards. yet it was obvious that if > I > > got > > > > > satsisfaction from participating in a situation, there must be some > > > >medium, > > > > > some continuum, within which this participation can take place, If > my > > > >family > > > > > and I were aspects of one whole; there must be some positive > > apprehension > > > >of > > > > > a continuity which made me an aspect of my family, not a separate > > member; > > > >it > > > > > was not enough to say that my physical being and my sensory > experience > > did > > > > > not in themselves prescribe the limits of the self." > > > > > > > > > > She goes on to explore the meaning of self among the Tikopia; I'll > > leave > > > > > that for another time. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I would just ask the members of this list if they have ever > > experienced > > > > > anything similar to what Lee describes as she was working on that > > blanket. > > > >I > > > > > know I have and I have felt it as a gift of enormous proportions; > > mostly, > > > >in > > > > > our society, it occurs in spite of the social and economic > > environment, > > > >not > > > > > because of it. But I strongly believe that it is possible to > stucture > > a > > > > > society and to develop cultural values that make this kind of > > experience > > > > > possible and common for everyone. > > > > > > Selma, > > > > > > > > > > > > **************************************************** > > > Harry Pollard > > > Henry George School of Social Science of Los Angeles > > > Box 655 Tujunga CA 91042 > > > Tel: (818) 352-4141 -- Fax: (818) 353-2242 > > > http://home.comcast.net/~haledward > > > **************************************************** > > > > > > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------------- > -- > > ---- > > > > > > > > > > --- > > > Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. > > > Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). > > > Version: 6.0.515 / Virus Database: 313 - Release Date: 9/1/2003 > > > > > > > > > _______________________________________________ > > Futurework mailing list > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > http://scribe.uwaterloo.ca/mailman/listinfo/futurework > > > > > _______________________________________________ > Futurework mailing list > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > http://scribe.uwaterloo.ca/mailman/listinfo/futurework > _______________________________________________ Futurework mailing list [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://scribe.uwaterloo.ca/mailman/listinfo/futurework