Christian Seberino wrote:
A marriage *is* a commitment.

No, a marriage is an ungainly amalgamation of a contract and a religious
ceremony entered into for various reasons. Commitment to partner is simply one of the many reasons (and, sadly, often not the most important one); this is part of the reason for the high divorce rate.

If some guy told our daughters that they were committed but "didn't
believe in marriage" we both know that's a bunch of crap

You have a profoundly narrow view of human social interaction.

Of the people I know who ever identify as committed but not married, a
quick count on my fingers places the separation rate at 12%.

Whereas the separation rate amongst my married friends sits just above 50%.

Funnily enough, the people who actively choose to be with their partner
every day seem to do better than those who are merely married.  Go figure.

-a


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