Martinets abound in all list groups.  It is best to not acknowledge them as 
that merely provokes them and others.  Just ignoring them is the best one can 
do.  When someone's mind is already set, you will not change it, and the 
ensuing posts accomplish nothing.  If inappropriate or nasty comments are made, 
they reflect on the sender.  Leave stinky posts alone.


CE

-----Original Message-----
From: Jeff Sylvan [mailto:[email protected]]
Sent: Saturday, June 26, 2010 5:49 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Legacy User Group reputation

I am appreciative of the supportive comments by some of the LUG
members.  It shows there are others who are unselfishly willing to
help other Legacy users.  As a newcomer, I have enjoyed some of the
more constructive comments, but have been put off by the more
vitriolic tone of certain responders.  I have lots of questions and
now feel confident to ask them without being chastised by the inane
few.

Jeff

On Sat, Jun 26, 2010 at 5:00 PM, Phil Ellis <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> I agree. The welcome given to newcomers is enough to send them immediately
> away. I have recently moved from FTM to Legacy but my wife refuses to
> because of what we have read on this forum.
>
> Phil Ellis
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Deborah Trounstine [mailto:[email protected]]
> Sent: Saturday, June 26, 2010 3:18 PM
> To: [email protected]
> Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Legacy User Group reputation
>
> Hi Charles - I appreciate your comments about the LUG as a whole. I have
> to say though, that I was shut down rather rudely in the past by a
> know-it-all on this list and just decided to quit commenting at all. A
> lot of what goes on here is ridiculous and a waste of time. Offering a
> helpful suggestion or opinion about how to solve a problem - sometimes
> after a great deal of thought and careful writing - is more likely than
> not to be hijacked by somebody who just wants to be the resident expert.
> There would have to be a really compelling reason for me to participate
> in this list anymore and, at the moment, I can't think of one.
> Too bad.
>
>
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