you know..you are right about ambivalence..i am still struggling to get of the silly childish judgements.. someone is agreeable .. they are good...you dislike someones actions or they are hard on you they are bad...then in perspective you think you are wrong in judging them...its hard to keep a clear mind in anger... its so absurd...obviously we would be better off not judging at all..and see people as they are...but acceptance is harder in practise..i am speakig of different relationships...
On Sun, Jun 20, 2010 at 6:11 PM, rigsy03 <[email protected]> wrote: > Virtue is its own reward...though it may take a long time to > experience its impact. Children, of course, have little or no control > on their circumstances and must adapt to survive- this tactic may > follow one through various adult experiences- so one may have an idea > of what makes a "good" role/rule to follow when fitting into the > whatevers of life. Much is misunderstood so we wind up with the wrong > group, the wrong mate, the wrong career, etc. Much of life is > situational- including relationships- but we can get stuck- even > within ourselves and our own self-image vs. reality. Another problem > is the discomfort with ambivalence- it can get to be a teeter-totter > and lead to paralysis of sorts. One may have to live with myths/lies > for a long time before honesty is dared- and honesty takes a great > deal of courage and maturity. In the long run we hopefully judge > ourselves and others with mercy, understanding- and humor doesn't hurt > either! :-) > > On Jun 18, 3:38 pm, "pol.science kid" <[email protected]> wrote: > > There are a lot of discusions about good and bad.. and right and > > wrong...and wat is moral or immoral..but wat i was wondering was .. is > > it really posible to put people into the category of good people and > > bad people...which are the most primary and significant roles played > > by him/her(how he/she plays it) decide his being a moral or immoral > > person.... i will give the most common examples.. A man may be a > > philanthropist.. an animal lover.. dutiful citizen..but he is a cruel > > husband and father....likewise...a man may be an outlaw.. but he is an > > exellent father... i know there are many variables to consider and wat > > is moral to each person varies..I'd just like your opinions > -- \--/ Peace
