I do some what agree but i would like to say the one how can some be sure about the so called one when der are so many in 'is it bcoz of comfort zone or anything else
On Mon, Jun 21, 2010 at 1:26 PM, pol.science kid <[email protected]>wrote: > I have a hard time believing when someone tells me that they have > found the one... what does it mean anyway..The one.. why does it thave > to be one...I believe that people can and do fall in love with more > than one person at the same time...and that is why i am opposed to > marriage as an institution...a promise to be with each other > forever!...I think open relationships are much better..there is no > emotional burden...Also sexual and emotional intimacy does not always > have to be in one single package.. i do not see adultery as something > horrible...and i really resented the way media made an example of > Tiger woods and his many affairs...so wat he slept with many women.. > its not like they didnt know who he was and that he was married...The > fact that religion penetrated and dictated every aspect of individual > lives still shows its effects...sex is something sacred and at the > same time tabboed(although some countries have come to take liberal > views there are still many orthodox societies)... its a natural > instinct why make something else out of it...its like hunger..The more > you try to regulate it the more you pervert it...the fact that > teenagers are told to abstain should only be because of health reasons > not because premarital sex is a sin...It was because that religion > first dictated that homosexuality is immoral that subsequent legal > bans on it followed.. and it is still so ingrained in society that > most homosexuals have a hard life..only because of one aspect of their > individuality... As for monogamy i really dont think it is a universal > truth...i mean it was fine when the mortality rate was around 50 you > could stick around with one.. but things are changing... And with the > society must evolve its institutions and the values related to these > institutions ... So after all this rambling all id like to say is that > the society should rethink its basic elements which it takes for > granted ...i dont mean to offend all you happily married people out > there.. just a private opinion.. and I'd like to know wat you all > think.. -- Sathyanaryan L Bannikod Executive - Marketing Future Group-Brand Factory Bangalore Mobile Number: +91 9620920630
