I am not here to tell others what I think of them, rather to present my
side of the argument. But if someone thinks I am imposing myself over them,
I find something to be wrong and have to reply, but in the process feelings
are ruffled. I find in this group people seldom change their mind, but
still you have to keep the conversation going because if the ideas are not
expressed it is useless having them. And who knows I myself may learn from
it.

On Mon, Mar 2, 2015 at 10:27 PM, 'facilitator' via "Minds Eye" <
[email protected]> wrote:

> Superior in what way? Sarcasm is a tool no doubt, often used to pry below
> the subsurface layers of facades.  As far as this forum what could people
> possibly stand to lose?  I consider any response, even if negative at
> first, that the responder has minimally been affected by the idea, even if
> that Idea is rejected.  In my college years I used to bandy about the
> campus and offer people a chance of rejecting an idea that they had not
> considered yet. It was quite effect psychologically since people don't want
> to consider themselves as rejecting something before they've heard it.
>
> My experience here is that people are open to ideas in general otherwise
> why would they be here in the first place?  The strong resistance to an
> idea is simply a stage all go through.  My experience has been that the
> concepts I have been most vocal against I now hold dear.
>
> And also, some ideas are simply crap.
>
> On Monday, March 2, 2015 at 11:31:13 AM UTC-5, RP Singh wrote:
>>
>> Anger may come sometime out of heart when you fear to lose something ,
>> sometime when you feel that the other is being superior, you have to
>> recognize it for what it is and there is no need of doing psychoanalysis .
>> If you are open to ideas you don't close your mind and react when
>> presented with a differnt ideology, it is one thing to disagree and anther
>> to be sarcastic
>>
>> On Mon, Mar 2, 2015 at 9:42 PM, 'facilitator' via "Minds Eye" <
>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>
>> Thanks for the elaboration RP.  I too find arrogance disheartening but I
>> would not dip my brush in it to paint others with.  I think most people
>> here might see it as self evident.  I do not know what rock some have been
>> chiseled from.  If I presumed someone to be arrogant at the outset how
>> would they be able then to have input?
>>
>> Anger in ones heart when responding can be many things and not just
>> "proof of arrogance". Perhaps the perceived anger could be generated by
>> feelings of discomfort associated with a bad experience in the past.  For
>> me, personally, I don't know anyone on this forum well enough to conclude
>> that they are angry or happy when responding.  (I do picture Neil plunging
>> in the lampoon with a smirk.)
>>
>> In closing you had mentioned something about Allan's moral compass being
>> more of a device for implementation rather than discussion.  Is the
>> conclusion to that statement that Allan was not open to ideas about it?
>>
>> On Monday, March 2, 2015 at 10:32:33 AM UTC-5, RP Singh wrote:
>>
>> From time to time I also have been arrogant and so easily I recognize it
>> in others. When somebody gives an opinion honestly through his heart and
>> the other person reacts with anger it is a proof of arrogance, but
>> confidence is that in which a person listens to others with a smile and
>> keeps his own counsel. To give your opinion is natural and if the other
>> person co
>>
>> ...
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