[DMB] Are you inviting me to pass judgment on your whole life, to prescribe a set of worthy activities?
[Arlo] I don't have to invite you, DMB, isn't this what you're doing? Passing judgment on the value of some activities? Even if those activities are meaningful to others. You see, if you said, "hey, Arlo, that's not my cup of tea, but I probably find meaning in some activities you don't as well", I'm not sure where the problem would be. So I ask you, if spending time in online worlds is meaningless, then YOU got to TELL ME by what specific criteria you make this judgment. And so far you haven't. Not a one. I've assumed it must have something to do with "other people present", and proposed two activities "making hot sauces" and "riding solo" that are also done without other people around. Are they equally meaningless? Is it "play"? What about my weekly Friday poker games? Is that "meaningless"? Is it "fantasizing"? What I want is a consistent set of criteria I can apply across the board to determine if a particular activity is meaningful or not. I mean, I want to know where I am wrong and finding meaning in an activity that I should consider meaningless. [DMB] I'm skeptical about your claims and I have to say that you're not doing much to back them up. [Arlo] And I'm saying, if you asked a hot pepper enthusiast what of value he finds in making hot sauces, what would you expect him to say? If you asked me, what of meaning do you find in long solo weekend rides on the motorcycle, I couldn't give you any more than I've given you about online games. I enjoy them because they are solo, they provide a space and a fun activity for my distributed set of friends to engage in, talk, meet others, and play. Like poker. Or basketball. Or water skiing. Or floral arranging. The only real issue is that it is of value TO ME. I don't care if its of value TO YOU. I fully expect others to find fun and value in activities I'd personally find boring and wasteful. And so what? Should I make claims about the value they experience? Or ask them to "prove" to me in some way why what they are doing has value? No. [DMB] It's funny how you seem to be so personally offended by these questions while at the same time insisting on the fluidity of the self. [Arlo] I'm not offended. I'm a bit repulsed by the idea of being told what I should and what I should not find a valuable use of my time. And I'm a bit surprised to hear it from someone whose views I normally respect greatly. This is why I ask, again, be very clear, David. Tell me precisely what it is about online games that you feel make them an activity we can proclaim to be meaningless across the board, for all people. [DMB] And no, I don't think the issue revolves around the copresence of corporeal bodies... [Arlo] Then... what? [DMB] I'm not denying the value of "playing" for adults. I'm asking about one particular way that one particular adult plays. [Arl] Okay. What makes other play meaningful but this type of play meaningless? Give me something here, a criteria, a reason, something I can apply to other activities as well. [DMB] But its also true that I never much cared for the literary genre known as fantasy and I lost interest in playing Monopoly decades ago. I've heard that the game called civilization, on the other hand, is an excellent tool for learning about how societies function. Plus it sounds like fun. But that's just me. Again, I'm asking if you can say anything specific about what being a virtual, magical warrior means to you or your friends. [Arlo] Fair enough. And I never cared much for basketball. Or crochet. Or origami. Or collecting stamps. But does that mean they are meaningless activities? Does that mean I should proclaim those who find joy in philately as being somehow misguided or in err? Being a virtual shaman (mind you, Aenea is not a warrior), is a way to simulate an activity that is impossible to achieve in the corporeal, organic world. In the same way that reading Sherlock Holmes stories let's one fantasize about the thrills of being a brilliant detective, or watching the latest Batman film lets on fantasize about being a superhero, or a vigilante, or just a really cool guy in a bat suit. For me, having been a lifelong fan of Tolkein (among others) Warcraft lets me assume the identity of someone in that world, explore dungeons, slay dragons, wield powerful magics, and along the while spend time with good friends. It is in many ways an "active novel" and even better it is an "infinite story" or "never-ending story" if you will. This may not be your cup of tea. If not, fine. It is also like a puzzle, a game of logic to deduce where things will happen, how to achieve certain results, and how to coordinate play to achieve a fluid "victory" condition. War gamers (the grandfathers to role-playing games like AD&D) would tell you the same thing, that they lived the life of the Allied Generals, or even the sinister-esque fantasy of commanding the Imperial Armies of Japan, they were able to see "what if" and along they way simply "have fun". [DMB] But here I get the impression that fun is more or less equal to escapism. That's one of the things that makes me so skeptical. That's what leads me to think that it would be wiser and healthier to get a life from which we don't feel the need to escape. [Arlo] Again, DMB, its balance. I enjoy "escaping" into books as well, from history books to the great book I am rereading at the moment "Musashi" by Eiji Yoshikawa. This is "escape", but you are right, too much escape is an unhealthy withdrawl that can lead to depression, alienation, and other social maladies. I have NO problem with your criticism of the dangers of over escape, over-fantasy, over-play. And if THIS is what you are saying, well we can move forward I'd wager. But so long as we are clear that overly escaping in books is functionally no different than over-escaping in games (video or poker or athletic or otherwise), then we are good. [DMB] Can we really interact with others in a meaningful way via our avatars? I'm skeptical. [Arlo] We can, and we do. We are proving it right now. [DMB] there's nothing like seeing the look on your face, reading your gestures. Those things convey a huge amount of information so that actual words and concepts become a small fraction of what's going on. [Arlo] We are undeniably bound to our organic, biological sensations, and there is no doubt in my mind that this provides an important arc in our social engagement. But I also think that online engagement can also be rich and meaningful, even if I don't have a face to see, or eyes to look into. [DMB] But you're a normal, healthy adult, no? If not, please forgive me. [Arlo] Healthy, yes. Normal? I doubt this more and more with each passing day. Anyways, I'll respond to other points you've made tomorrow. The Office (US version) just came on DVD. That means some escape tonight for me. Moq_Discuss mailing list Listinfo, Unsubscribing etc. http://lists.moqtalk.org/listinfo.cgi/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org Archives: http://lists.moqtalk.org/pipermail/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org/ http://moq.org.uk/pipermail/moq_discuss_archive/
