>I'd definitely fire the cabana boy tho. To allow one's faithful wife an indiscretion is one thing, >but to encourage it smacks of disrespect for the institution.
haha! so many variations on the 'open marriage' theory... you can do it - but just don't 'tell' me about it - but if I hear about it - then I'm going to be hurt/jealous etc. after a short 3 year marriage - when i was 21.. then I had this long relationship for 14 years..not married, with someone who never promised monogamy. I had this great 'theory' at 24: 'who am I to limit anyone elses experiences on the earth?' Interesting idea and very difficult to actually LIVE in the context of a relationship. I still sort of have it - but it's changed a bit - I've added a few caveats about not having my own experiences compromised. Bruce Lee said in "The Tao of Jeet Kune Do": "To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person." And you sure can learn alot in a relationship whether or not it involves the contract of marriage! I always thought it curious that a (let's use a woman/man example...but could be either) a woman could love and want for her husband to have ALL of his dreams come true - no matter what...EXCEPT that fantasy of his having a playboy model :-) it's like I love hearing partners say to each other: "but I LET you do anything you want" ;-) real love is based on that stuff your beautiful wife was writing about! Caring more for each other and your kids than yourself...and I don't know that it has much to do with the 'institution' of marriage but it is WONDERFUL when the two actually coincide. Moq_Discuss mailing list Listinfo, Unsubscribing etc. http://lists.moqtalk.org/listinfo.cgi/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org Archives: http://lists.moqtalk.org/pipermail/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org/ http://moq.org/md/archives.html
