>Speaking of which... a modern phenomena that troubles me is the vast number of couples I see where the >girl is pregnant or has a child by the classic "bad boy" of high school, and then finds a nice stable >nerdy guy to support her and her child. I see this a lot. It's not consciously planned that way, but >it happens a lot. Enough to see that there are forces pulling the patterns thusly.
true, true! I read about that phenomenon...I think it's because the 'bad boys' often exhibit characteristics more in line with what is attractive at a biological level... it's back to the 'caveman' and 'social status'...often the bad boys are popular, charismatic and so on...but aren't necessarily smarter or able to be good providers. Unfortunately, I think the girls then 'settle' for the nice guy to support her... rare when the combinations actually work from the biological and sexual level, all the way up through the social and the intellectual levels and the 'spiritual levels' beyond... whatever those are - either fabricated extended mental/intellectual levels or something more profound in our psyche/consciousness...I've known guys with whom the sex was ok, the social and intellectual levels worked - but there just wasn't a 'spark' - what the hell is that all about? Moq_Discuss mailing list Listinfo, Unsubscribing etc. http://lists.moqtalk.org/listinfo.cgi/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org Archives: http://lists.moqtalk.org/pipermail/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org/ http://moq.org/md/archives.html
