If thats the case - I want your bikes in the will :-)
-Joey
On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 11:37 AM, Javier Garcia <[email protected]> wrote:
> I always tell to my wife, if you ever die, I will kill myself immediately.
> Not because of the pain, but because I have no idea where the money is,
> which bank account, internet password, ... etc.
> I wouldn't be able to survive anyway ;-)
> Javier.
>
>
> On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 10:29 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
> wrote:
>>
>> There is an old saying "You can't hitch a Mule to an Ox." They will just
>> go around in a circle. In a good marriage you work together and respect each
>> other. In a bad one that doesn't happen. Some people have a need for
>> control, when they are married to someone who resents being controlled. It
>> is bad news and hurt feeling all around. Be thankful you have a good
>> marriage. There is more than just money and reason, to coming to a consensus
>> on purchases.
>> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T
>> ________________________________
>> From: Kyle Munz <[email protected]>
>> Sender: [email protected]
>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 09:17:09 -0500
>> To: <[email protected]>
>> ReplyTo: [email protected]
>> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>
>> Who wants what gets worked out before the month begins. We allocate blow
>> money for eachother too. How you spend your blow money is entirely up to
>> you, that's why it's called "blow money". I like to let mine pile up and
>> purchase large items, she likes to blow hers the first wknd of every month
>> at the mall. We can't criticize the other though. I'm not saying that buying
>> the bike was a bad purchase, but if this is something the guy does then set
>> aside $1000 in a column for bike projects. When he sells one it can go
>> towards the next project. No budget is perfect for everyone, but
>> communication prior to large purchases is what keeps blow ups like this from
>> happening.
>>
>> -Kyle
>>
>>
>> On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:43 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
>> wrote:
>>>
>>> Sometimes it's not about the budget, and more about who wants what.
>>> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T
>>> ________________________________
>>> From: Kyle Munz <[email protected]>
>>> Sender: [email protected]
>>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:08:45 -0500
>>> To: <[email protected]>
>>> ReplyTo: [email protected]
>>> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>>
>>> <Soapbox id='Budget'>
>>> Were the happy couple operating on a joint account with a written budget
>>> this situation could have never arisen, propensities towards drama or not.
>>> Agree on the budget before the month begins, then pinky swear not to break
>>> the budget during the month. Regardless of whether or not it can be flipped
>>> tomorrow for $2,000, if the $800 initial purchase isn't already set aside,
>>> it can't happen. Thus nobody is surprised, worried about how to pay the
>>> electric bill, or pissed off. If my "little missus" spent 800 unallocated
>>> dollars I'd be equally hot. If they were previously allocated I would have
>>> no grounds what-so-ever to be upset. If it's a surprise opportunity then
>>> both parties need to come together to reallocate funds. Both deciding that
>>> it's a good idea and which category is going to be $800 short.
>>> </Soapbox>
>>>
>>> Thus is the magic of a written budget. As Ron says, working together
>>> rather than against each other. Sorry for ruining all the fun ;)
>>>
>>> -Kyle
>>>
>>>
>>> On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 7:50 AM, Pastor Ron <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>
>>>> OK, OK, some marriage counseling is necessary. If you are not working
>>>> together you are working apart. Marriage that works is a marriage that
>>>> is a
>>>> giving of yourself to your spouse to make the other happy. When that
>>>> happens
>>>> you find joy in marriage. When two don't care about the others opinions'
>>>> and
>>>> feelings bad things can happen, and certainly not a fulfilling joy
>>>> filled
>>>> marriage. I would rather have one motorcycle and a happy wife, than 10
>>>> motorcycles and a sucky marriage. Building respect and trust in my
>>>> relationship with my wife, has overcome her fears, and allowed me to buy
>>>> motorcycles. If his Harley neighbor took the time to explain it to his
>>>> wife, that he was going to make some money on the deal, it could have
>>>> led to
>>>> a wild night with his wife. Just saying.
>>>> Ron
>>>>
>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>> From: [email protected]
>>>> [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Allen Thomas
>>>> Sent: Thursday, May 31, 2012 7:36 AM
>>>> To: Nightwawk Lovers
>>>> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>>>
>>>> Nope, even though they are like kids that never grow up.
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>>>>
>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>> From: Joey Kelley <[email protected]>
>>>> Sender: [email protected]
>>>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:28:39
>>>> To: <[email protected]>
>>>> Reply-To: [email protected]
>>>> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>>>
>>>> How about dogs?
>>>> That count?
>>>> -Joey
>>>>
>>>> On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:21 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
>>>> wrote:
>>>> > Give it 7 more years or add kids to the equation.
>>>> > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T
>>>> >
>>>> > -----Original Message-----
>>>> > From: Joey Kelley <[email protected]>
>>>> > Sender: [email protected]
>>>> > Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:14:41
>>>> > To: <[email protected]>
>>>> > Reply-To: [email protected]
>>>> > Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>>> >
>>>> > Allen,
>>>> > Guess you better add my name to the exceptions. Paula and I
>>>> > have been together just over a year now - and there is very little
>>>> > tension in my house. Not saying we're perfect, but we're certainly
>>>> > doing well!
>>>> > -Joey
>>>> >
>>>> > On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:11 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
>>>> wrote:
>>>> >> As with any generalizations, there are always exceptions. That's just
>>>> >> my
>>>> observation of the women in my life. You got a special one, count your
>>>> blessings.
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>>>> >>
>>>> >> -----Original Message-----
>>>> >> From: Graham Rogers <[email protected]>
>>>> >> Sender: [email protected]
>>>> >> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:08:00
>>>> >> To: <[email protected]>
>>>> >> Reply-To: [email protected]
>>>> >> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>>> >>
>>>> >> My wife doesn't seem to want drama in her life. Although she does
>>>> >> what
>>>> she can to alleviate drama in anybody else's life. She finds
>>>> fulfillment in
>>>> helping others, Graham
>>>> >>
>>>> >> On May 31, 2012, at 7:27 AM, Allen Thomas wrote:
>>>> >>
>>>> >>> Personally I think women need drama in their life. If they don't get
>>>> enough, then they will make it. So as a husband it seems best just to do
>>>> what you want and give them something to complain about. Because they
>>>> will
>>>> complain no matter what, even if your totally compliant to their
>>>> desires.
>>>> >>> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T
>>>> >>>
>>>> >>> -----Original Message-----
>>>> >>> From: surfswab <[email protected]>
>>>> >>> Sender: [email protected]
>>>> >>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 04:18:01
>>>> >>> To: Nighthawk Motorcycle Lovers!<[email protected]>
>>>> >>> Reply-To: [email protected]
>>>> >>> Subject: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>>> >>>
>>>> >>> Dunno if he plans to flip it, but he could get that for it easily.
>>>> >>> Less than 7K on the clock.
>>>> >>>
>>>> >>> And he wouldn't even have to deal with Craigslist or Ebay, just park
>>>> >>> it on the floor at the dealership. I suspect he'll hang on to it
>>>> >>> for
>>>> >>> awhile, though, just to keep a burr under her saddle.
>>>> >>>
>>>> >>> Ain't love grand?
>>>> >>>
>>>> >>>
>>>> >>> On May 31, 2:16 am, brian lindsley <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>> >>>> I bet she wont be so mad if he sells it for $2000 and gets her a
>>>> >>>> nice
>>>> >>>> bobble or something with the $1200 profit he made!!!
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>> On May 30, 8:19 pm, surfswab <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>> My neighbor is a Harley mechanic for a local dealership. Quiet
>>>> >>>>> guy,
>>>> >>>>> doesn't talk much.
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>> But his wife does.
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>> He scored a non-running '02 Buell Cyclone over the weekend and we
>>>> >>>>> hauled it to his house in my pickup. Apparently, he had not
>>>> >>>>> mentioned
>>>> >>>>> the purchase to her and she was livid.
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>> "I can't believe you spent $800 on that thing...and it doesn't
>>>> >>>>> even
>>>> >>>>> run!" was one of her milder comments.
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>> He just smirked and wheeled it into his garage and I left. Didn't
>>>> >>>>> want to hang around with an irate female on the loose (!)
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>> Three hours later he was popping wheelies up and down the street.
>>>> >>>>> So
>>>> >>>>> I'm thinking, quiet as he is, maybe he got the last word in.
>>>> >>>>
>>>> >>>>> But somehow I doubt it.
>>>> >>>
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