I always tell to my wife, if you ever die, I will kill myself immediately. Not because of the pain, but because I have no idea where the money is, which bank account, internet password, ... etc. I wouldn't be able to survive anyway ;-) Javier.
On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 10:29 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>wrote: > ** > There is an old saying "You can't hitch a Mule to an Ox." They will just > go around in a circle. In a good marriage you work together and respect > each other. In a bad one that doesn't happen. Some people have a need for > control, when they are married to someone who resents being controlled. It > is bad news and hurt feeling all around. Be thankful you have a good > marriage. There is more than just money and reason, to coming to a > consensus on purchases. > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T > ------------------------------ > *From: * Kyle Munz <[email protected]> > *Sender: * [email protected] > *Date: *Thu, 31 May 2012 09:17:09 -0500 > *To: *<[email protected]> > *ReplyTo: * [email protected] > *Subject: *Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife > > Who wants what gets worked out before the month begins. We allocate blow > money for eachother too. How you spend your blow money is entirely up to > you, that's why it's called "blow money". I like to let mine pile up and > purchase large items, she likes to blow hers the first wknd of every month > at the mall. We can't criticize the other though. I'm not saying that > buying the bike was a bad purchase, but if this is something the guy does > then set aside $1000 in a column for bike projects. When he sells one it > can go towards the next project. No budget is perfect for everyone, but > communication prior to large purchases is what keeps blow ups like this > from happening. > > -Kyle > > > On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:43 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>wrote: > >> ** >> Sometimes it's not about the budget, and more about who wants what. >> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T >> ------------------------------ >> *From: * Kyle Munz <[email protected]> >> *Sender: * [email protected] >> *Date: *Thu, 31 May 2012 08:08:45 -0500 >> *To: *<[email protected]> >> *ReplyTo: * [email protected] >> *Subject: *Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife >> >> <Soapbox id='Budget'> >> Were the happy couple operating on a joint account with a written budget >> this situation could have never arisen, propensities towards drama or not. >> Agree on the budget before the month begins, then pinky swear not to break >> the budget during the month. Regardless of whether or not it can be flipped >> tomorrow for $2,000, if the $800 initial purchase isn't already set aside, >> it can't happen. Thus nobody is surprised, worried about how to pay the >> electric bill, or pissed off. If my "little missus" spent 800 unallocated >> dollars I'd be equally hot. If they were previously allocated I would have >> no grounds what-so-ever to be upset. If it's a surprise opportunity then >> both parties need to come together to reallocate funds. Both deciding that >> it's a good idea and which category is going to be $800 short. >> </Soapbox> >> >> Thus is the magic of a written budget. As Ron says, working together >> rather than against each other. Sorry for ruining all the fun ;) >> >> -Kyle >> >> >> On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 7:50 AM, Pastor Ron <[email protected]> wrote: >> >>> OK, OK, some marriage counseling is necessary. If you are not working >>> together you are working apart. Marriage that works is a marriage that >>> is a >>> giving of yourself to your spouse to make the other happy. When that >>> happens >>> you find joy in marriage. When two don't care about the others opinions' >>> and >>> feelings bad things can happen, and certainly not a fulfilling joy filled >>> marriage. I would rather have one motorcycle and a happy wife, than 10 >>> motorcycles and a sucky marriage. Building respect and trust in my >>> relationship with my wife, has overcome her fears, and allowed me to buy >>> motorcycles. If his Harley neighbor took the time to explain it to his >>> wife, that he was going to make some money on the deal, it could have >>> led to >>> a wild night with his wife. Just saying. >>> Ron >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: [email protected] >>> [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Allen Thomas >>> Sent: Thursday, May 31, 2012 7:36 AM >>> To: Nightwawk Lovers >>> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife >>> >>> Nope, even though they are like kids that never grow up. >>> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: Joey Kelley <[email protected]> >>> Sender: [email protected] >>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:28:39 >>> To: <[email protected]> >>> Reply-To: [email protected] >>> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife >>> >>> How about dogs? >>> That count? >>> -Joey >>> >>> On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:21 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]> >>> wrote: >>> > Give it 7 more years or add kids to the equation. >>> > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T >>> > >>> > -----Original Message----- >>> > From: Joey Kelley <[email protected]> >>> > Sender: [email protected] >>> > Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:14:41 >>> > To: <[email protected]> >>> > Reply-To: [email protected] >>> > Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife >>> > >>> > Allen, >>> > Guess you better add my name to the exceptions. Paula and I >>> > have been together just over a year now - and there is very little >>> > tension in my house. Not saying we're perfect, but we're certainly >>> > doing well! >>> > -Joey >>> > >>> > On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:11 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]> >>> wrote: >>> >> As with any generalizations, there are always exceptions. That's just >>> my >>> observation of the women in my life. You got a special one, count your >>> blessings. >>> >> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T >>> >> >>> >> -----Original Message----- >>> >> From: Graham Rogers <[email protected]> >>> >> Sender: [email protected] >>> >> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:08:00 >>> >> To: <[email protected]> >>> >> Reply-To: [email protected] >>> >> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife >>> >> >>> >> My wife doesn't seem to want drama in her life. Although she does >>> what >>> she can to alleviate drama in anybody else's life. She finds >>> fulfillment in >>> helping others, Graham >>> >> >>> >> On May 31, 2012, at 7:27 AM, Allen Thomas wrote: >>> >> >>> >>> Personally I think women need drama in their life. If they don't get >>> enough, then they will make it. So as a husband it seems best just to do >>> what you want and give them something to complain about. Because they >>> will >>> complain no matter what, even if your totally compliant to their desires. >>> >>> Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T >>> >>> >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> >>> From: surfswab <[email protected]> >>> >>> Sender: [email protected] >>> >>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 04:18:01 >>> >>> To: Nighthawk Motorcycle Lovers!<[email protected]> >>> >>> Reply-To: [email protected] >>> >>> Subject: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife >>> >>> >>> >>> Dunno if he plans to flip it, but he could get that for it easily. >>> >>> Less than 7K on the clock. >>> >>> >>> >>> And he wouldn't even have to deal with Craigslist or Ebay, just park >>> >>> it on the floor at the dealership. I suspect he'll hang on to it for >>> >>> awhile, though, just to keep a burr under her saddle. >>> >>> >>> >>> Ain't love grand? >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> On May 31, 2:16 am, brian lindsley <[email protected]> wrote: >>> >>>> I bet she wont be so mad if he sells it for $2000 and gets her a >>> nice >>> >>>> bobble or something with the $1200 profit he made!!! >>> >>>> >>> >>>> On May 30, 8:19 pm, surfswab <[email protected]> wrote: >>> >>>> >>> >>>> >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> My neighbor is a Harley mechanic for a local dealership. Quiet >>> guy, >>> >>>>> doesn't talk much. >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> But his wife does. >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> He scored a non-running '02 Buell Cyclone over the weekend and we >>> >>>>> hauled it to his house in my pickup. Apparently, he had not >>> mentioned >>> >>>>> the purchase to her and she was livid. >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> "I can't believe you spent $800 on that thing...and it doesn't even >>> >>>>> run!" was one of her milder comments. >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> He just smirked and wheeled it into his garage and I left. Didn't >>> >>>>> want to hang around with an irate female on the loose (!) >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> Three hours later he was popping wheelies up and down the street. >>> So >>> >>>>> I'm thinking, quiet as he is, maybe he got the last word in. >>> >>>> >>> >>>>> But somehow I doubt it. >>> >>> >>> >>> -- >>> >>> You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google >>> Groups "Nighthawk Motorcycle Lovers!" group. >>> >>> To post to this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >>> To unsubscribe from this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >>> For more options, visit this group at >>> http://groups.google.com/group/nighthawk_lovers?hl=en. >>> >>> >>> >>> -- >>> >>> You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google >>> Groups "Nighthawk Motorcycle Lovers!" group. >>> >>> To post to this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >>> To unsubscribe from this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >>> For more options, visit this group at >>> http://groups.google.com/group/nighthawk_lovers?hl=en. >>> >>> >>> >> >>> >> -- >>> >> You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google >>> Groups >>> "Nighthawk Motorcycle Lovers!" group. >>> >> To post to this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >> To unsubscribe from this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >> For more options, visit this group at >>> http://groups.google.com/group/nighthawk_lovers?hl=en. >>> >> >>> >> -- >>> >> You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google >>> Groups >>> "Nighthawk Motorcycle Lovers!" group. >>> >> To post to this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >> To unsubscribe from this group, send email to >>> [email protected]. >>> >> For more options, visit this group at >>> http://groups.google.com/group/nighthawk_lovers?hl=en. >>> >> >>> > >>> > >>> > >>> > -- >>> > -Joey Kelley >>> > JoeyKelley.com - My Life Online >>> > JoeyFixesComputers.com - Its What I Do! 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