Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife

Thu, 31 May 2012 10:35:16 -0700

As I tell my wife ...jokingly... I'm sticking to the BITTER END. LOL You will have to get your own bikes. 
Ron
----- Original Message ----- From: "Joey Kelley" <[email protected]> 
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Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife


If thats the case - I want your bikes in the will :-)
             -Joey

On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 11:37 AM, Javier Garcia <[email protected]> wrote:

I always tell to my wife, if you ever die, I will kill myself immediately.
Not because of the pain, but because I have no idea where the money is,
which bank account, internet password, ... etc.
I wouldn't be able to survive anyway ;-)
Javier.


On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 10:29 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
wrote:


There is an old saying "You can't hitch a Mule to an Ox." They will just
go around in a circle. In a good marriage you work together and respect each 
other. In a bad one that doesn't happen. Some people have a need for
control, when they are married to someone who resents being controlled. It 
is bad news and hurt feeling all around. Be thankful you have a good
marriage. There is more than just money and reason, to coming to a consensus 
on purchases.
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From: Kyle Munz <[email protected]>
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Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 09:17:09 -0500
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Who wants what gets worked out before the month begins. We allocate blow
money for eachother too. How you spend your blow money is entirely up to
you, that's why it's called "blow money". I like to let mine pile up and
purchase large items, she likes to blow hers the first wknd of every month at the mall. We can't criticize the other though. I'm not saying that buying the bike was a bad purchase, but if this is something the guy does then set 
aside $1000 in a column for bike projects. When he sells one it can go
towards the next project. No budget is perfect for everyone, but
communication prior to large purchases is what keeps blow ups like this from 
happening.

-Kyle


On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:43 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
wrote:


Sometimes it's not about the budget, and more about who wants what.
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<Soapbox id='Budget'>
Were the happy couple operating on a joint account with a written budget
this situation could have never arisen, propensities towards drama or not. Agree on the budget before the month begins, then pinky swear not to break the budget during the month. Regardless of whether or not it can be flipped tomorrow for $2,000, if the $800 initial purchase isn't already set aside, 
it can't happen. Thus nobody is surprised, worried about how to pay the
electric bill, or pissed off. If my "little missus" spent 800 unallocated dollars I'd be equally hot. If they were previously allocated I would have 
no grounds what-so-ever to be upset. If it's a surprise opportunity then
both parties need to come together to reallocate funds. Both deciding that 
it's a good idea and which category is going to be $800 short.
</Soapbox>

Thus is the magic of a written budget. As Ron says, working together
rather than against each other. Sorry for ruining all the fun ;)

-Kyle


On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 7:50 AM, Pastor Ron <[email protected]> wrote:


OK, OK, some marriage counseling is necessary. If you are not working
together you are working apart. Marriage that works is a marriage that
is a
giving of yourself to your spouse to make the other happy. When that
happens
you find joy in marriage. When two don't care about the others opinions' 
and
feelings bad things can happen, and certainly not a fulfilling joy
filled
marriage. I would rather have one motorcycle and a happy wife, than 10
motorcycles and a sucky marriage. Building respect and trust in my
relationship with my wife, has overcome her fears, and allowed me to buy 
motorcycles. If his Harley neighbor took the time to explain it to his
wife, that he was going to make some money on the deal, it could have
led to
a wild night with his wife. Just saying.
Ron

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Nope, even though they are like kids that never grow up.
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From: Joey Kelley <[email protected]>
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Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:28:39
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How about dogs?
That count?
-Joey

On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:21 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
wrote:
> Give it 7 more years or add kids to the equation.
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>
> Allen,
> Guess you better add my name to the exceptions. Paula and I
> have been together just over a year now - and there is very little
> tension in my house. Not saying we're perfect, but we're certainly
> doing well!
> -Joey
>
> On Thu, May 31, 2012 at 8:11 AM, Allen Thomas <[email protected]>
wrote:
>> As with any generalizations, there are always exceptions. That's >> just 
>> my
observation of the women in my life. You got a special one, count your
blessings.
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>> From: Graham Rogers <[email protected]>
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>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 08:08:00
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>> Subject: Re: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>
>> My wife doesn't seem to want drama in her life. Although she does
>> what
she can to alleviate drama in anybody else's life. She finds
fulfillment in
helping others, Graham
>>
>> On May 31, 2012, at 7:27 AM, Allen Thomas wrote:
>>
>>> Personally I think women need drama in their life. If they don't >>> get enough, then they will make it. So as a husband it seems best just to do 
what you want and give them something to complain about. Because they
will
complain no matter what, even if your totally compliant to their
desires.
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>>> From: surfswab <[email protected]>
>>> Sender: [email protected]
>>> Date: Thu, 31 May 2012 04:18:01
>>> To: Nighthawk Motorcycle Lovers!<[email protected]>
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>>> Subject: [Nighthawk Lovers] Re: Domestic strife
>>>
>>> Dunno if he plans to flip it, but he could get that for it easily.
>>> Less than 7K on the clock.
>>>
>>> And he wouldn't even have to deal with Craigslist or Ebay, just >>> park 
>>> it on the floor at the dealership. I suspect he'll hang on to it
>>> for
>>> awhile, though, just to keep a burr under her saddle.
>>>
>>> Ain't love grand?
>>>
>>>
>>> On May 31, 2:16 am, brian lindsley <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>> I bet she wont be so mad if he sells it for $2000 and gets her a
>>>> nice
>>>> bobble or something with the $1200 profit he made!!!
>>>>
>>>> On May 30, 8:19 pm, surfswab <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>> My neighbor is a Harley mechanic for a local dealership. Quiet
>>>>> guy,
>>>>> doesn't talk much.
>>>>
>>>>> But his wife does.
>>>>
>>>>> He scored a non-running '02 Buell Cyclone over the weekend and we
>>>>> hauled it to his house in my pickup. Apparently, he had not
>>>>> mentioned
>>>>> the purchase to her and she was livid.
>>>>
>>>>> "I can't believe you spent $800 on that thing...and it doesn't
>>>>> even
>>>>> run!" was one of her milder comments.
>>>>
>>>>> He just smirked and wheeled it into his garage and I left. Didn't
>>>>> want to hang around with an irate female on the loose (!)
>>>>
>>>>> Three hours later he was popping wheelies up and down the street.
>>>>> So
>>>>> I'm thinking, quiet as he is, maybe he got the last word in.
>>>>
>>>>> But somehow I doubt it.
>>>
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